im generally an all round nice guy. im nice to everyone i meet and my friends, i respect everyone no matter what. i dont hurt or abuse anyone in any way, but lately ive been getting insults from people... why is this happening??
2007-01-22 03:43:34 · 19 answers · asked by stefan 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
the insults ive been getting are about everyting from appearance to the way i walk, just every little thing.. im usually strong but its getting to me!
2007-01-22 03:59:42 · update #1
It's probably nothing wrong with you!
See, that wasn't an insult ;)
Keep being nice and respecting everyone, this is a very noble thing to do.
2007-01-22 03:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by Edu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People take advantage of what they perceive as weakness for their own gains. Especially if the insults are for getting laughs and respect from others at your cost. Why do you think most comics are losers? Most of them cannot hold down a job for long without losing it. Confidence is what you need and what people respect, even if it means having to go far as being a dick when you have to. Animals build their hierarchy on this, and the cowardly ones usually become the submissive and soldiers. That's all we are, with logic and holistic mixed in. If they make fun of you again, try to insult them back with something snappy. If you cannot think of something or are not good at it, then tell them to **** off and stay away from them as much as possible. If they insist on mowing you down wherever you go, and screwing with you, pick up the nearest piece of driftwood or such and cave one side of their jaw in, preferably in front of others who will witness their threats to you. Then others will also know you mean business.
2007-01-22 11:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by careercollegestudent69 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The same thing is happening to me.
I don't know the reason.
Everyone is finding faults in me from the pettiest to petty stuff.
I remember the whole of last year no one said anything good about me,not even a tiny compliment.
Well it upset me and depressed me a lot and it still does but i try to focus on building myself because i know in my heart that there is nothing wrong with me and there is nothing wrong with u.
I think u should let the others **** off and pay attention to building yourself by setting small goals and big goals later on.
2007-01-30 07:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by goldengirl_missevolution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's yet another battle of the haters.People who are mean to everyone don't have too many friends. People like you who are nice to everyone do. People want what you have, charm. They want to bring you down so they can be the next you:liked by everyone. Don't let them bring you down because that will make them believe they are greater than you, and they are not.
2007-01-28 20:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by mychocolatekisses 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter how nice or respectful you are of other people. There is always going to be plenty of jerks out there to try and ruin your day.
2007-01-22 11:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by southswell2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of insults? That might give us a better idea.
Like saying you have bad breath? Or saying that you are a jerk?
It's hard to answer why if we don't know what the insults are.
2007-01-22 11:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was bornknock kneed , I learn to walk in a way that was less noticeble,...it tool time mirrors, consciously paying attention to it, but eventually it worked only when you directly look at my legs can you tell with shorts on
2007-01-29 15:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by jigadee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you being such a crybaby? Jesus Christ. Stop it! No wonder you get insulted.
My recommendation for you is to go out and get your *** beat on the football field. Then you'll be alright. Bloody. But alright.
2007-01-22 11:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by Mario E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're showing weekness, people sense it. You need to build up a little confidence. Hang out with your Mother for awhile.
2007-01-29 09:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, then you are doing or saying or acting in some way that is bothering people.
Could they be joking around with you? Can you take a joke?
2007-01-30 11:11:02 · answer #10 · answered by thefinalresult 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋