We are both male executives. No physical signs that we are both bi-sexual
2007-01-22 03:37:58 · 15 answers · asked by Blink 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Introduce him to her - Invite him to dinner. Then before he leaves let her know what you are both up to. She will either
a) Ask him to stay, because she is intrigued
b) Ask you both to leave, because she is hurt by your cheating on her.
2007-01-22 04:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, stop thinking of her as your girlfriend.... A man doesn't treat his girlfriend that way..
Then imagine you going to tell her your deed and her laughing, telling you, "thats a relief because I have been having sex with my best friend too.."
not so funny huh?
Well, that probably wont happen, but you need to let her go because all you will do is destroy her belief that men can be faithful and true... you are going to hurt her either way so better sooner than for her to find out... and in the back of your mind you know that you do not want that to happen...
Tell her. If you don't, you add lieing to fornication (lust).
Afterwards, think hard, reflect, consider, contemplate the consequences of sin in your life.... Think about how it is so sweet in the beginning but in the end you end up hurting other people... It is like that with all sin.. and the cure for sin is Jesus... Clear your conscience with God's help.
Seriously, He will cleanse you from head to toe... He loves you completely, He just hates sin...
Homosexuality is not permenant.... Jesus can even cleanse you of that sin....
"All manner of sin shall be forgiven men, except blasphemy of the Holy Spirit.." that is the word of God... to find it look in your bible's glossary for key words...
2007-01-22 04:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her immediately. She has the right to know. Not every person wants to be with another person who has MULTIPLE partners and could give him/her diseases. After all, how many people is your best friend sleeping with, and what about their partners? You're not just taking your best friend to bed; you're taking A LOT of people into your girlfriend's bed. Condoms make sex safer, but they do not guarantee completely safe sex.
Aside from that, this woman may really love you, and she has the right to know that she will have to share you if she marries you.
She needs to know that this is a risky relationship both emotionally and sexually. She needs to know the truth to decide if you are worth the investment of her time and emotions.
2007-01-22 03:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by D 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't. If you value your relationship you would just be throwing it away, not to mention the danger it poses to your executive status and his. Friends are forever, but relationships are very fragile and temporary. My advise is do not gamble your future on a fleeting present.
2007-01-22 04:08:26 · answer #4 · answered by D4gotten1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're having unprotected sex, what is the reason you want to tell her? No good can come of it - if she gets angry with you because of your sexual relationship with your best friend, she will tell everyone in her office - and yours as well. Are you engaged to her? If not, she has no business to know UNLESS you are engaged in UNSAFE sexual behavior.
2007-01-22 04:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by dmspartan2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her straight up and if she dumps you then maybe u kind of deserved it for cheating in her, but at least now you can ahppily bone that male friend of yours. If you're lucky she'll want to join in. is he hot? im so jealous of you right now.
2007-01-22 04:22:54 · answer #6 · answered by defenderof thehumanright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dana K is an idiot and the reasoning behind her madness is ignorance. You should just tell her for your own peace of mind. She is a girlfriend not a wife so it shouldn't be all that bad. I have been there done that. I am now happy and with my partner who is a guy. Yes I'm a guy too. LOL
2007-01-22 03:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Say it with flowers.
Sheesh, how some people become executives and are so inept is beyond me.
2007-01-22 03:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt like to know that if I was your gf. if you love her and dont want to break up, dont tell her anything. BUT if you want to keep doing IT with your male friend, break up with your gf first and then, tell her you are bisexual.
2007-01-22 04:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.. if u r f*cking a guy, then you ARE bi-sexual!
u can tell her but im sure she'd flip
2007-01-22 03:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋