I always willingly take the time to engage in 4-play and please a lot. Almost half the time, especially in recent times, I've noticed as soon as she's peaked and has gone through a full cycle of excitement, she smiles gives me a big hug and thanks me and instinctively either falls asleep or goes about doing other things around the house.
Yet, not once am I upset or angry at her. I feel disappointed a bit that I've been left "high and dry" and most often a sense of frustration. But never angry or upset at her. Yet, every single time I go back to my way of pleasing her thoroughly.
Is this something that's happened in your relationships?
2007-01-22 03:35:49 · 11 answers · asked by houstonian352000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And just off late, I get these intense urges to stray. I'm sure I'll find someone that appreciates my willingness to please and are willing to prolong and want more.
2007-01-22 03:54:32 · update #1
Have you ever heard about Co-dependence..
It is when we allow another to suppress and control our responses.... But, if you are comfortable with this scenario than the ball is in you court.
It once happened to a friend for 47 years and believe me he is so confused.... Just do what your heart tells you or tell her that you need more from this relationship.. that sure will spark a fire....
Good Luck & God Bless
2007-01-22 03:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by annalani64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez Sounds like the way I used to feel . Being left high and dry and he would fall asleep have the tables been turned
this is really different . I don't know about her but I know about me. I can't answer for her and maybe you might like to approach her on this one. talking is a great way to find out whats happening and that way the relationship can advance instead of regress.
Good luck I hope the talk works
2007-01-22 03:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 22:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Room activity is just a fraction of what makes a relationship blossom.You can try to explore other activities that is fun for your partner, at the same time, you can introduce her to hobbies or fun activities that you enjoy.There is really no need to feel annoyed.IF SHE WASN'T ATTRACTED TO YOU, she would not have gone out with you in the first place.
2007-01-22 03:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you will find someone in sync with you sexually. Always means????? she never gets you to that point? ever? She sounds a bit selfish and making love/intimacy is or is supposed to be the most unselfish act. You give and receive. Talk to her first before you make any rash decisions
2007-01-22 05:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First check your breath.
If you never say anything to her, she probably thinks it is OK with you. Talk to her about it and if it continues, stop giving her what she wants and tell her why. Sex is between two people. Not one person and a dummy.
2007-01-22 03:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to her about this and let her know that it does have you angry and disappointed? Maybe she is doing this without realizing it... and if thats not the case at all, maybe she is only worried about getting hers, and you are on your own to get yours... talk to her, good luck!
2007-01-22 03:40:03 · answer #7 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but only when i want to pi$$ the person off.
i will do it on purpose when i feel like i'm being taken for granted. like when i do it too many times for him and get nothing in return. just so he'll know what it's like.
2007-01-22 03:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah dog. My woman always handles her business. You just gotta bust your nutz first. Make her know what she'll be missing if she doesn't take care of hers
2007-01-22 03:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
negative---u need to talk to her...maybe ask her to do this *whatever u like* to u when u are finished with her
2007-01-22 03:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋