she gave up with me last year but shes started again. i want her to stop but i ve smoked myself and dont want to sound like a hypercrit
2007-01-22 03:20:11 · 9 answers · asked by mrsunshine56987 5 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
Obviously, you do NOT do a thing to MAKE her quit. She has to want to do that herself. If she doesn't want to, she isn't going to.
You can tell her you don't want her to smoke, but that is the extent of your control over her actions, the ultimate decision and effort to quit has to be her idea, not yours. The decision as to whether or not you want a smoker for a girlfriend is yours to make.
2007-01-22 03:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF she does want to quit then read the following... if she doesn't, don't bother
www.santo-raphael.ro sells something like Tabacstop. It's an alcoholic mixture of the following herbs:
Salvia officinalis
Mentha piperita
Acorus calamus
Lycopodium clavatum
Plantago major
Ethyl-alcohol, distilled water
I wrote 'em in latin so to be sure of wich plants we talk about. Try to find some f these herbs in your area, and mix them up and make a tea or just cut them tiny and hold them 4 about 15 mins in the mouth, 4 times a day , durring 3 months. A more natural way that this... i dunno.
2007-01-22 03:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit together! Go in 50/50 on a box of nic gum. Go on dates where you can't smoke. It's touch to quit; I'm there right now myself. Support each other.
2007-01-22 04:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by Renee C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't
2017-01-23 08:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make her stop
You could always ask her why she likes to smoke, then maybe you will understand why she started smoking again and both will understand where you stand
2007-01-22 03:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by mary L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with montreal. I don't think there is a way
2007-01-22 03:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by 1982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont its her choice she must know that every cigarrete she smokes she is closer to some kind of death. if she has n0 will power or common sence there is nothing you can do
2007-01-22 03:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by irene k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her something else to put in her mouth
2007-01-22 03:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her all the reasons why you want her to quit and ask her to do it for her health also
2007-01-22 03:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by glamour04111 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make her stop she has to stop on her own
2007-01-22 03:23:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋