What d u think about self esteem ?

Question

For me, it's very important cause that's what makes the difference in a girl's personality...
Thank u in advance for your answers.

Answer 1

Self esteem is very important in our lives. It's belief in oneself to accomplish the daunting tasks that faces us on a daily basis through positive enforcement.
To help others you must be able to help yourself. Self-esteem is very similar in that way, where to believe in someone you must first believe in yourself.
It doesn't mean that because you have it you'll turn into some megalomaniac (over-confidence) or a greedy self-indulgent person (selfish).
Without self-esteem (belief in one-self) how can one make the other feel good about them self. It gives a person a fresh outlook on life, when needed (going through tough times).
It keeps your head up and encourages you to continue on.

If a girl has too little of this I get annoyed and completely turned off. I hold a woman's beauty, grace, charm and intelligence in high esteem, to see them falter from this pedestal and fall into self doubt is very unattractive.

Answer 2

high self esteem can be very attractive because it shows confidence and comfort with ones self. However I find people with really high self esteem pretty irritating and somewhat phony too (no one has a PERFECT life lets be honest!) and I cant handle those over the top types.
I think balance is important to have a good self esteem such as feeling confident and secure is really vital to being a sucessful person.Low self esteem can be the result of personal problems and lead to depression to its important to always have the balance.Girls with high self esteem tend not to be liked because guys are threatenend by them and girls with low self esteem tend to be the kind of girls who maybe sleep around or do drugs or whatever because they are looking to gain self confidence.

Answer 3

it is very important, it gives you an edge where you can say no to people and not feel bad just cause you said no to them. It also helps you have a personality of your own instead of looking, walking, talking and thinking like everyone else and not speaking up when you know something is wrong. If you have self esteem then I say right on and keep it up. don't let anyone bring it down.
my sister and cousins feel if everyone don't like them they are worthless because a boy rejected them ( pathetic)

Answer 4

Self-esteem (esteeming yourself highly) isn't good. Self-confidence is. They have found a direct correlation between people who have high self-esteem and anti-social behaviour. Who do you think had higher self-esteem-Adolf Hitler, or Mother Theresa? Adolf Hitler! People with very high self-esteem tend to think that the world owes them. They don't think that they need to contribute.

What you WANT to have is self-confidence. That means that you have the confidence that you can do anything you put your mind to. It means that you feel that you are capable of doing great things. It gives you the courage to go out and DO great things.

Answer 5

A healthy self esteem is a corner stone of our lives