I was at my b/f's house and we were watching tv. Is how he acted normal??
I fell asleep in his arms and he started feeling me up. He claims he just couldn't help it. He says that watching me compete in my gymnastics meet just makes him get turned on and he can't help it. He says even though it was hours later, he still thought about the meet. Is this a normal guy??
2007-01-22 02:00:08 · 18 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Yeah. If he didn't feel you up I'll be worried.
2007-01-22 02:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, he is SUCH a normal guy! Men are visual and seeing legs splitting apart and girls moving and bending in ways that most people don't is a total turn on for him. And for him to be open enough with you to share that with you should mean a lot! However, since I don't believe in sex before marriage and staying pure and all that "mumbo jumbo" I would say that you need to not be tempting yourselves. I'm 21 and I have a 3 year old daughter...that's why I don't believe in sex before marriage!! Trust me!!!
2007-01-22 05:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by Erin D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on if you find it acceptable or not and if you he knew the boundries. If the two of you have been together for a long time then most likely yes it is normal if you are a new relationship then I would suggest that you talk to him and tell him especially if it bothered you enough to come here.
Men even young boys have will power it is just a matter of them excercising it.
2007-01-22 02:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by troy j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that's not normal. It's scary that when you fall asleep that he can't keep his hands off you. He could be turned on which is natural, but it's not when of you is sleeping. I'd ask him about it and tell him it bothers you, and suggest when you can be together per say. If he acts funny about it or gets defensive etc...you may want to start looking elsewhere with someone who'll respect you a little more. Guys/men who are like that are immature and disprectful and don't really get any better as they get older; trust me =)
2007-01-22 02:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It was probably normal for him to be turned on, but if he started feeling you up when you were sleeping, that is not right! I'm sure he has some form of self-control, he was trying to take advantage of you, i would stay away from him!
2007-01-22 02:05:42 · answer #5 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately yes. Teenage boys are pervs, which is one of the reasons they generally don't make good boyfriends. It's up to the girls to set the boundaries so you should put a stop to this behavior. If you allow it or laugh it off it's like open permission to disrespect you.
2007-01-22 02:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by twinmom 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say remembering something pleasurable later on is a normal thing... touching you up when your sleeping is definitely not!!! Ask him why he thought it was appropriate to touch you when you were asleep.... not right!
2007-01-22 02:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by Lucky Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a guys hands in your pants thats completely normal...
now it's hard to classify someone a "normal guy"
maybe he was just turned on, and when your other head thinks,things happen, thats normal right ? :D
2007-01-22 02:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by TripleH_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal all guys say im just going to hold you then they start feellin you up lol and i know wat u mean i am in beauty pageants and it makes mi bf excited too lol and i could fal asleep in his arms or nething he will act like hes juss rubbin mi stomcah and mite go down but now we been togetha almost 2 years he noe not to lol
2007-01-22 02:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a loved one are together then one of them would like to feel them just like that ur b/f feeled u and that's normal guy
2007-01-22 04:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by kishan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not normal to do anything sexual to another while they are sleeping. Tell him next time he wants to touch you to at least make sure your awake so you could atleast enjoy it.
2007-01-22 06:20:27 · answer #11 · answered by bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋