Having an illicit affair with a married person? Just wondering...
2007-01-22 01:52:43 · 12 answers · asked by fatherf.lotski 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Advantage) Excitement
Disadvantage) Getting found out
Ad) Getting to know someone
Dis) the other person getting hurt
Ad) The fantasty
Dis) The reality when you get found out.
Dis) Not getting full attention
Ad) passion (is that the same as excitment I don't think it is)
Dis) Getting pregnent. (man or women)
2007-01-22 01:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by Dreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could fall in love with them,and than they could decide to go back with their spouse. their spouse could find out, come after u, harass u, while your spending time with them, your not seeing the other options or other perspective people that could give u what u want from life. your going to feel resentful when u don't get the time u want from that other person, as if they are in a marriage they can't be with u enough. if u do manage to get them, and they do leave their spouse, u will always be wondering if they will be cheating on u also when they get tired of u, cheaters i believe have a certain character, of running away, finding new people whenever things in the marriage don't go as they want. what makes u think u will fare any better than the present spouse. u may run into the exact same problem that they had with the spouse, because i think people who cheat have unrealistic expectations, and when u fail to meet them, will u also be kicked to the curb?
2007-01-22 10:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If all you're looking for is no strings sex then the advantage is clear.
The chances of the married person leaving their husband/wife is slim so you get the sex without the responsibilities of a real relationship.
If you get caught and her husband beats the sh!t out of you I'd call that a major disadvantage.
2007-01-22 10:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude what goes around comes around. You will soon find your match and just pray that HIV is not the one. All the advantages that you might think is just temporary you have to be more worried about the permanent that would come back and hunt you.
2007-01-23 00:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by Macky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Phew!!!!!!!!! sorry can't answer have a hot sweat at the thought of answering that :)
2007-01-22 15:10:00 · answer #5 · answered by crazeeladee no more 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many to mention!
2007-01-22 09:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be a person with a weapon waiting for you
2007-01-22 09:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
constant fear of being found out and losing everything
2007-01-22 09:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong.
2007-01-26 08:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No advantages it is just nasty!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-22 10:38:15 · answer #10 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋