Im in love with my childhood friend since i was 11. He knew how i felt but we were jus friends since he didnt love me. I came to England and he went to Canada for education. 1 day, he said to me he loves me and wana go out. I agreed coz he said distance dnt matter to him. We met once in between but then we started argueing alot. 1 day, he said to me, he had never loved me, only as a person and cant marry some random person online. So i left it. He became very mean n harsh towards me but then 1 day he came bak saying hes sorry. He still loves me and nothing matters as long as im with him,so i gave him another chance. We argued about something n he said to me he'll leave me if he feels like im not the "one" for him. He said he wont marry until hes 30 and wont have kids until hes 32. Hes 22 and im 21 rite now. He says he loves me, wants to marry me, dont care abt distance but then changes his mind every now and then. Im too confused! Is this love???
2007-01-22 01:51:49 · 13 answers · asked by priya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Look, this guy is playing games and you should never stay with anyone who treats you harshly. You deserve to be happy and find a guy near you that treats you well. This boy sounds immature and stupid.
Do yourself a favor and dump him.
You can do better!
Love yourself!
2007-01-22 01:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is confused! He doesn't want to let go of something but he isn't sure what he wants.
Date other people. Stay friends with him. You are both still young and he needs to figure out what he wants out of life without dragging you around for years. I would hate to see you stand around waiting for someone who has no clue about relationships and then decides to walk away. If you two cannot spend a day together without arguing about something (who started it) then there is an underlying problem. Don't change yourself to please him.
Have fun.
2007-01-22 02:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by Margaret K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ide say NO! I dont think he knows what he wants, by the way he is treating you it sounds like mental and emotional abuse. You dont deserve that. Love is nothing like that. He needs to grow up and figure out what HE really wants. He obviously isnt very happy. I think he is very unsure about himself. Take some time apart and do some soul searching because this isnt healthy. You Can do much better with someone who will love and cherish you! Good luck!
2007-01-22 02:11:57 · answer #3 · answered by felinashere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this is not love, he knows u love him and is using it against u someone who loved u would never do that. he knows because u love him he can call all the shots and tell u how its going to be and u will just accept it
2007-01-22 02:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by northern_playgirl_seventynine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay friends with him don't date him he does not know what he wants yet and a relationship will only get worse.Date someone else.... someone that is sure of himself and sure about you
2007-01-22 02:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by kellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! you need to go out and find yourself a better man. someone who will treat you with respect and one isn's hott one day and cold water the next. Leave this loser and find a better man!!!!!
2007-01-22 01:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't love you. england is a nice place and full of people meet someone new make friends. you are still young to worry yourself about stupid guys. forget about him.
2007-01-22 02:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Shai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your heart:Is it love or not?Heart never lies.But I think if he loved you he wouldnt change his mind so many times.When it is real love there is no place for any doubts.Good luck!
2007-01-25 20:11:10 · answer #8 · answered by Solnishko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start dating other men.
2007-01-22 01:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking yourself the question, you know deep down inside it isn't love......
2007-01-22 01:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋