My friend from childhood lives 300 miles away, visits regularly and pushed herself in to hols with me recently (ok I should have said no) Consider in her heart she is a true friend but drives me crazy and family can't understand why I don't dump her. In her own words member of her own family told her she is 'irritating'. She is absolutely thick skinned and no matter how something spelt out to her she just comes back eg former friends told her they perhaps just didn't want to know or their husbands didn't like her but she would not end friendship, continued phoning etc. She has plenty of family in her own right but seems to want to be part of everyone elses and asks question eg my son-in-law how much he earned. Told her in no uncertain terms where to go but she then said "Just tell me is it more that £45,000? I argue she would tell her business. Gives awful sale gifts, family say insulting. She think ok. Family says dump her should I?
2007-01-22 01:07:31 · 7 answers · asked by Ms Mat Urity 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Oh crikey, you've got a female Cable Guy there!! I've got a best friend who irritates me, but she doesn't sound half as bad as yours. I have to see mine in small doses. It's hard is people are well meaning and you know you shouldn't really be horrible to them, is there anyway you can make excuses and avoid her as much as possible? Maybe just see her occasionally?
2007-01-22 01:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Paradox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly its 12 months stuff to commence with, u have the right to lend it to him or no longer. If he retains asking u for 12 months stuff and u dun want to lend him purely say straightforwardly that u dun want to lend it to him. Its alright to decline to those style of human beings. He would purely step throughout u if u proceed to do issues the way he want u to. and perhaps he would ask u to do different issues for him as well. and perhaps he will administration 12 months existence in a while. And if 12 months associates thinks 12 months a finished "ineffective" to them, does that propose that they are purely utilising u? I propose they're being associates with u coz they want something from u or utilising u for his or her personal objective. Which purely ability they don't look to be even 12 months associates. i wager its more suitable to haven't any associates than to have associates who purely is conscious the thanks to apply human beings.
2016-10-15 22:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tricky, I guess sometimes if things aren't working and you're better off without her, then maybe it's time to call it a day. Although do what you feel is right-don't do what your family tells you and then regret it.
2007-01-22 01:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wound 't dump her just because some one tells you 2 even if its a family member or not. its wot you think that counts not any one else. do you like her? do you still love her? or do you just like as a mate and not as a girlfriend?
2007-01-22 01:20:18 · answer #4 · answered by heatherdayheather 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is too short to waste it on people who irritate you. give your love to those you like and who deserve it. friendships don't have to be for life, they do sometimes come to the end of a natural span so don't beat yourself up about it. move on.
2007-01-22 01:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly don't dump her, u go and try to understand her that what she is doing ...that is all irritating to other persons......and if she doesn't care about it...tell her that she can also lost her friends because of this...If she is your best friend ....i am surely know that she understand all the things what u r trying to tell her !!!!!!
2007-01-22 01:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you like her? its not about what other people think or tell you to do, they should respect your choices.
2007-01-22 02:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by I~Love~Baileys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋