If you and a really good friend of yours don't really love each other, but are immensely attracted to each other, and then if you sleep with each other, would you guys be considered bad or 'trashy', or can it be justified by the intense sexual attraction that you share?
2007-01-22 00:55:01 · 14 answers · asked by curious 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
everyone has different morals and values. many people in this world have "friends with benefits" sexual relations with friends and even with some strangers.. there really is no right or wrong answer that we can provide. what matters is your own personal values.
just remember, that once you sleep with someone, you've crossed a line that you can't go back. sex with a friend has been known to change friendships forever. in somecases it makes things very awkward.. think carefully and think twice.. on the other hand, many friendships turn into love because of sexual attraction.
2007-01-22 06:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are of the age of consent, I don't believe you have to justify anything. Now if you are picking up strangers and having sex indiscriminately, then yes that makes you trashy. Or having sex with someone who is involved with someone else and not being open about it. But having a sexual relationship with a close friend who you are attracted to is pretty normal. Enjoy!
2007-01-22 02:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if itis a really good friend, I will always have feeling for them, and it may be a little bad, but not trashy at all considering we know each other.
2007-01-22 02:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've now asked this question four times. The answers will not change. Yes.
If you share all your feelings, your sorrows and joys, and you have this interest then why are the two of you only friends? Ultimately, it's your body. Treat it like a junk yard or a palace. Your choice.
2007-01-23 04:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not evaluate myself 'random', more suitable like 'comical'. advantageous often times i'm able to assert something like '...on the prompt's a Tuesday. The tuesdayiest of days' or something, yet no longer something like 'look a butterfly!' i keep in mind that receives truly stressful at the same time as human beings say 'LOL IM SO RANDOM!' it is clone of 'you don't need to point it out. opportunities are severe you're primary' i imagine that random will be utilized to the Harry Potter personality (HP followers, you recognize what I propose) Luna Lovegood. in case you ever had to fulfill someone random, its Luna.
2016-10-15 22:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lifes to short, have at it.
Do beware of possible complications if one of you hooks up. I know everyone says there will not be but, from life experience, someone might get upset that there F*** buddy is gone.
If you are sure there is no problem then enjoy it!!
Remember....."Conserve water, shower with a friend"
2007-01-22 01:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by fluid_reality78 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not consider yourself bad... You both must have wanted the same thing. I l would be happy to chat with you by email. Enjoy your life to the fullest.
2007-01-22 01:01:38 · answer #7 · answered by beachguy_41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"considered" by who? It all depends on who you hang out with. Anyone who's "trashier" than you are is "trashy".
2007-01-22 16:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each their own.
2007-01-22 01:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by castle h 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
psh, NO!!!!! let me tell u, ive had that kind of sex that was, just a 'fling'. and it felt GREAT!!!!! it felt great to finally do wat both of us were always talking about doing. from the ppl that knew, nobody thot it was trashy.
2007-01-22 02:32:11 · answer #10 · answered by Pete_Wentz_fanatic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋