If you've been in a relationship with your boyfriend for 3 years and better, and you never seen him cry once for something other than a death, that its not a meaningful relationship at all.
Now what I got from that statement is that not too many guys cry openly about things that bother them, and if he cries in front of you that means he feels comfortable enough to trust you.
But I'm just not sure how i feel about the part where if you havent seen him cry its not a meaningful relationship.
What do yall think?
2007-01-22 00:50:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
crying has NOTHING to do with a meaningful relationship. alot of men are raised to believe that men don't cry. so if you haven't seen him cry maybe it's because he hasn't cried in 15 years and has nothing to do with how he feels about you. incidental this is another one of those things that we do not understand about you.
2007-01-22 00:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by BuddhaDaddy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is absolutely ridiculous! I guess my nearly 17 year marriage is a waste then because i didn't see him (my husband)show tears until 8 years into our marriage --the day our son was born. (he'll be 9 this year)
As far as I'm concerned I didn't see any other reasons for him to cry.
The person who told you that is putting a silly strain on a relationship. How meaningful a relationship is not judged by whether a person can cry. How long has that person been in a relationship and is it a stable, strong, one?
It is best to judge a relationship by what it HAS, not by shortcomings.
2007-01-22 01:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by Chef Susy--Cookin it up! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. I don't think that seeing a guy cry has anything to do with how meaningful the relationship is. But I do believe that it's got something to do with how much he trusts you and how comfortable he is around you.
My hubby cried in front of me, within a year of being together, and it wasn't over a death. He was afraid of losing me over some stupid junk, which he had no control of, that had happened states away.
;o)
2007-01-22 00:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is pointless to make blanket statements like that. Some people cry over cartoons, some people are stoic in the face of great pain. It is a very individual thing and not something you should generalize.
2007-01-22 00:55:40 · answer #4 · answered by Alexandriagal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it's true...You shouldn't give up a relationship if you love him just because you've never seen him cry! And maybe there wasn't a situation for him to cry...you never know.
2007-01-22 01:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by ħ Ì Wêår M¥ Mê?ål Må§k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide what you believe. I had a bf for over 13 yrs and only saw him cry once but he was just not a cryer but a good person regardless.
2007-01-22 01:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by sideways 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
base on the statement ,because he doesnt trust you and he's not comfortable with you ...
But for me it doesnt really matter to see him crying during our relation to know that its a meaningful relation ..
2007-01-22 00:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they dont openly cry in front of others
2007-01-22 00:54:58 · answer #9 · answered by Leveler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww...you said Yall....Thanks, I aint the only one that says that....
2007-01-22 00:53:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋