2007-01-22 00:23:54 · 4 answers · asked by Sasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You might ask them..but be open to receive honest answers.
And if you get honest answers, try working on it..
Maybe they are really not true friends~
2007-01-22 00:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was thinking this myself about a "friend" recently. Like why they choose to spend time much more with other friends, yet they continue to interact with me...on occasion. I know they like me because they have told me so, but I am definitely not on the top of the list of the friends they choose to spend much of their free time with. This boils down to what you want out of the "friendship", or whether your idea of a "friendship" is equivalent to theirs. There has to be give and take, or it simply falls apart in my opinion. If I were you I would not ask her/he anything like why. I would suggest doing something with them, say a couple of times in a row, and if they blow you off again, just let it go. If they come back and interact with you I would tell them how I feel...I would point out that you were making an effort and they were not...very simple. Then all the cards are on the table so to speak and you can feel satisifed that you at least made a sincere effort not only to extend the hand of friendship but also to participate as a friend, in the perceived friendship. I mean if you do not spend time together, how do you nurture the relationship?
2007-01-22 08:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you text her a massage
and tell her she might tell maybe you did something bad to her or lied at her or someone told her something bad about you ask her she is only the one can help you
2007-01-22 08:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by meera a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always check with them. I believe they will tell you the truth.
2007-01-22 08:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋