Would u be with a man you absolutely adore e although you know he is married?
2007-01-22 00:17:47 · 22 answers · asked by terracotta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ABSOLUTLEY!! If you find he fills a void in your life, and your willing to accept this, then go for it!!
2007-01-22 01:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by K.W. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont know if u r askin this because u r n dis situation now.but this is a answer that comes personally through experience from my heart.i grew up n a christian home.u always will hear people say dat its against god laws 2 get involve with a married person.now i believe n god and i try to do whats right.BUT SWEETIE U DO NOT HAVE N E CONTROL OVER UR HEART & UR FEELINGS FOR THAT PERSON!!!! now i have been n situations where tha guy was married and i had no intentions of dealing wit him on that level but it wound up being on that level.now whateva choices u make in life there is a consequence.BUT u do what makes u happy.and it seems like every guy i meet dat treats me right just happens 2 b married.its not like u wake up everymorning wit a "gotta find a married guy" attitude!but life isnt perfect & ur gonna get caught up in crazy situations!!so my advice to u is live ur life to tha fullest & enjoy what comes ur way.but dont get it twisted im not sayin so what if he s married.because if tha guy has no respect towards himself then he dont care bout u either.but live day by day find out what his future plans r.discuss what exactly do he want with u and go from there.but u will have people that will leave u there answers and pound on u just cuz he s married ignore all dat and live for u just b careful though and make sure u both have a clear understanding with each other.and let time show u da way. i hope i was helpful to u and good luck!!!!!
2007-01-22 08:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by bossy_chocalate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that situation never ends well, no matter what TV may teach us, or not as many the case may be. In the end, he's married, eventually he's gonna recognize that he wants to make that work. He may be in an unhappy relationship right now but don't put yourself in the position of being his little thing on the side, his bit of excitement out of his everyday home, which in the end he'll realize is too good to give up for a fling.
2007-01-22 08:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't.. You would get hurt by him and not just that but the stress you would be going through. I say find someone else and you shouldn't be with a married man anyways because hes cheating on his wife what makes you think he wont do the same? Get out while you can.
2007-01-22 08:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because nine times out of ten the man is lying to you and his wife, and he isn't going to leave his wife, Why would you want to waste your life when you will never be able to get it back. You need to find someone who will love you and that you can claim as your own. You don't want to be labled as a home wrecker......find someone that you can love it is the best thing, there are plenty out there, and why do you want to settle for someone you can only see part of the time, when you can have someone all the time.......think about it and I am sure you will see I am right. Good luck!!
2007-01-22 08:43:35 · answer #5 · answered by blueigurl34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not.. I have enough respect for MYSELF and for the Vow of marriage that i would never put myself in a situation of destroying someones marriage.. how would u like it if you were the one married and an outsider just destroyed all ur hopes, dreams, and faith that u had for your family???? doubt u'd like it much.. Any man that is willing to cheat on his wife, isnt a man u want in ur life, ur nothing special.. at one point he was head over heels in love with his wife, giddy, etc.. and now look whats happening, if he's capable of doing it to her , he's capable of doing it to u .. your just the "new one" of the moment.. thats all.. so respect urself.. respect marriage..and dont be an adulterous.. "thou shall not commit adultery" , just cause ur not the one married doesnt mean ur not just as guilty for the crime..
2007-01-22 08:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really
if he likes u u can be with him but be sure..ur on the wrong way girl..there r plenty of other guys who r single..and ya u don't lov the man u adore him simply..
and ya u breaking his home life..married life if he too feels the same for u..
ur not responsible,,cuz we have no control over our emotions...but take great care about it
i wouldn't advice u really to get deeper in that relationship
get to kno ther guys as well
am sure plenty of singles await 4 u..
get moving he's not worth a try..
2007-01-22 08:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by Gamesr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Not only is it dishonest, it disrepects the sanctity of marriage. And if the guy would even cheat on his wife, you know he's not worth it. Marriage is a very special relationship that shouldn't be distorted by disrepectful people.
2007-01-22 09:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by Shannon L - Gavin's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and simple....NO! I have a friend who was in a relationship with a married man for 5 years and he recently just broke it off with her. She was heartbroken. Do not set yourself up for pain. Find someone who cares enough about you to give all that he is to you.
2007-01-22 08:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming I were single,no. Too much would be at stake and I wouldnt chance falling deeper. I could "adore" other men.
2007-01-22 08:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He can show his adoration by getting divorced first, then we will see how I feel about it.
2007-01-22 08:59:45 · answer #11 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋