I work hard during sex... and I don't mind because I really enjoy it. But, I sometimes get frustrated because many times my wife can't come. She says she really enjoys our physical relationship. Do any of you have this type of experience?
2007-01-22 00:05:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no...it generally is easy....my husband has had alot of practice with me and knows how to read my body....I also have no trouble reaching the O by myself....you both need to practice more and perhaps buy her a vibrator to practice with when you are not there....shouldn't be so hard....just need to get the technique down...good luck
2007-01-22 00:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Son, not always women reach the climax. Some never do. And is not failure from your part. Is just that some anatomies lack that sensibility. The sole act, whether it has an implossive finish or not, is sometimes enough to make us feel good. And to know our partner does his best to get us to that point means he really cares. Women are more sentimental than physical. That's why some of us decide to fake one in order to make our partner feel good since the climax seems to be too important for them. Sometimes sex is not even necessary. Just the closeness of the bodies in a warm embrace means a lot to some of us. In which case the sexual act becomes a plus. Don't feel bad about your wife. She loves you and enjoys the quality time you two spend together. Blessed be!
2007-01-22 08:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by M'lady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't easy. I'm not one of those lucky females that you just look at them and they climax. I'm not a multiple either. However, when I do climax I nearly pass out (and have once or twice), it is that intense. I take responsibility for my own climax, my husband helps of course, but in the end it is my job to make sure that I get off too. Sometimes I just like to enjoy the physical union and not work to climax, sometimes that is just as satisfying.
2007-01-22 08:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. and as frusterating as it is for u, its about 20 x more frusterating for us.. Im extremely hard to get to climax.. and i have no clue why, but it takes alonggggggg time to get me aroused enough to climax if even i do.. and i love having sex.. but if it doesnt happen for a while (climaxing) it gets extremely frusterating, and extremely depressing .. to the point at times that its easier not to have sex then to have it cause i dont want to get depressed afterwards.. So yes it does happen.. it has nothing to do with u , or ur skills etc.. just some women have a really hard time...just keep trying new things.. and try to help her relax.. ive found the more that my husband seems to be into it..(aroused or getting excited ) the more it helps me ...but please dont take it personally.. shes doing that enough for the both of u even if she isnt telling u about it..
2007-01-22 08:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's not really telling you what she wants or perhaps she is mentally not there during sex.I know that most women need a lot of touching and kissing before the actual act because most woman don't climax during regular intercourse,we aren't made that way unfortunately,so we require stimulation first.Some times the foreplay can take all day like a little touching here a few soft kisses there and so on.
2007-01-22 08:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At tiems it is yes at other times it takes some time... Depends alot on my body. Yes i feel that like your wife we all have this experience at times i know that even for some men like my husband and such that there are times they can climax or finish earlier and faster then other times. This is just how nature and our body works.
2007-01-22 09:31:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just that easy for women. But we still enjoy the experience, and pleasing our men.
2007-01-22 08:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by Layla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Guess i'm the LUCKIEST woman in the world - ANYTHING can make me *** !!! I *** alllllllll the time and anytime !! Fingers , small penis .......doesn't matter i can *** ! I've heard that i am or my husband i should say are VERY fortunate as only 2 % of all women can *** !! That is soooooo SAD ...ladies you are all missing out !!! Good luck !! There is no feeling like an orgasm !!!
2007-01-22 08:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sarahdv7 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, it takes longer for women to come. It also depends on what she's in the mood for, sometimes, if I'm in the mood I come 3 times and sometimes not even one time. Since you want to give her pleasure, you can try oral, I always come during oral.
2007-01-22 08:17:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm glad you are "trying", some men get so frusterated they just give up, do you know where her g spot is?? fing it with your fingers first, it feels like a walnut, good luck. have her massterbate while your having sex, that should be a turn on for both of you
2007-01-22 08:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋