I read an article in yahoo news that some good American universities suck as Clark university in Massachusetts or university of California in Irvine have dorms where men and women dorm together.
On the other hand the parents are worried that it is not necessary to mention the reasons now and the parents usually doesn’t make mistake. In my idea they are right.
What do you think?
Will it affect the student work at the university?
Why are the parents worried? They say that the two students will sleep in one bed, is it bad?
What is your opinion?
Thank you
2007-01-21 23:28:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
It depends on the individuals. There is no right or wrong answer to what you are asking.
Good Luck!!!
2007-01-29 18:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is totally a personal decision. My husband and I have been having a hard time finding any university with married housing. So for us this would be excellent. I think for some, more modern minded students this is a good idea. Having their significant other there for support, comfort, and sharing of responsibilities concerning money and daily chores could help some to feel less overwhelmed and focus more on their studies. I am also not so naive to think that most college students are as chaste as their parents want, and I also think living together has many benefits by way of informing each as to how the other lives, making both more aware of any problems/issues. This also gives either one a chance to address the issue or leave the relationship, before the life long commitment is made. Hope this helps.
2007-01-21 23:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by JennJones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you uphold the standards of the Western Civilization that say that marriage is to be the sole domain for the sex act (which is the Christian point of view and widely subscribed to in MOST cultures in the world) then co-habiting and co-dorming is forbidden.
Parents have to be afraid that their children (albeit 'adults') will succumb to the temptations of boys/girls sleeping in the next bedroom, where no one will know if one slips into the room of another for a bit of 'nooky.'
The sex act is the strongest pleasure and most wonderful thing in the world, when encountered in the context of one man committed to a woman for ever in marraige. Out of that context the emotions and psyche of the actors gets confused, upset, jealous, or worse - intimidated and manipulated. "Rape" is frequent and OF COURSE the university class work is neglected, or ignored for the 'joys' of the illicit relationships.
You asked and I told you my opinion. Stay a virgin until you marry and it will be better, I promise you.
2007-01-21 23:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by thisbrit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's bad. It's hard enough to get through college without having someone of the opposite sex in the same room or bed with you to distract you. No one would ever get any work done. It would just complicate everything too much.
2007-01-21 23:38:58 · answer #4 · answered by Texas Pineknot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In college you should be focused on your studies, not living with the opposite sex. College isn't easy, so stay on the straight and narrow path, sleep alone, visit with your friends during the day and go out to movies, bowling and eat pizza on the weekends for fun. But stay focused!
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2016-10-31 23:41:29 · answer #6 · answered by englin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋