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It depends on what you are chatting about and on whether your fiance approves it or not!

2007-01-21 23:21:31 · answer #1 · answered by Marianna D 2 · 0 0

Did you say engaged as in 'to be married' or have you been kidnapped to enter the monastery? Why would it be wrong to chat with the opposite sex while engaged, married or single? Unless you're chatting naked in bed with the opposite sex (apart from your fiancee) while engaged I can't see a problem.

2007-01-22 07:23:52 · answer #2 · answered by Blonde & Sharp 2 · 0 0

Wrong is in the eye of the beholder! Look at it from your engaged's point of view and give him the attention he needs before looking at who to chat with. Keep the chats short and above criticism.

2007-01-22 07:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by desertflower 5 · 0 0

Of course not! How could you possibly go through life not ever talking to someone of the opposite sex? And what about after you are married? As long as you are friends with someone of the opposite sex there is NOTHING wrong with it at all.

If someone said to you that it was wrong, like your fiancee, you already have some serious issues.

2007-01-22 07:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by PrincessOfFun35 3 · 0 0

No it's not wrong as long as it is a friendly chat. You can be friends with guys and girls while you are engaged.

2007-01-22 07:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If it is just purely innocent friendly chat then I see nothing wrong with it. Just ask yourself, would you be happy if you found out your fiance was chatting in the same manner as you are? If the idea of your fiance doing it makes you feel angry then chances are you are doing something wrong. I have 2 male e-mail pals, but I have no problem in my fiance reading any of the things I write, he has access to my email accounts and I'm happy for him to read them, as there is nothing to hide.

2007-01-22 07:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0 0

Chatting with and having male friends is okay as long as it doesn't go any further than that. Once you start flirting and engaging in 'sexy talk', you enter a very dangerous, slippery area that can easily turn into 'cheating'.

2007-01-22 07:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

there is nothing wrong with being friends with the opposite sex while you are engaged

2007-01-22 08:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by N/A 2 · 0 0

no! I think that it's never wrong to chat with the opposite sex, we can talk to anybody we want

2007-01-22 07:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by deana m 3 · 0 0

Depends on what you mean by "chat". If you're talking about online, yes it is wrong. Are you going to stop immediately after you get married? Doubtful!

2007-01-22 07:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0 0

Depends what you are chatting about. If it is sexual in nature - I would say that is wrong. If you are just talking about your favorite movies or swapping recipes, that would be ok. But if you hide it from your fiance, no matter what you are talking about is wrong.

2007-01-22 07:21:33 · answer #11 · answered by Militant Agnostic 6 · 0 0

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