Is it ok to have someone on the side on a peranent basis, to asist with you love making? lol
2007-01-21 23:02:40 · 14 answers · asked by desertma88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
what about if your missus says she doesnt mind, i keep her satisfied, but need more.The other girls dont mind helping out.
2007-01-21 23:11:55 · update #1
obviously no and u are asking because u know bthe truth
2007-01-21 23:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by LadyK 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No this is not ok. I have been betrayed like that numerous times and the pain lessens but never really goes away. If your partner does not satisfy you end the relationship. I am a firm believer that what goes around comes around so if i were you i would think long and hard about how you treat your partner.
2007-01-22 08:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by Takita F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most will say no and i would have to agree...however i personally know couples where both parties have agreed to open marriages... One of which are happier for it, they both choose to have variety but still love each other more than anything. But an open marriage more times than not wind up ripping a marriage apart. How would you feel if your wife also chose to go elsewhere.... and despite protection how well will your marriage survive if you were to pass a disease onto your wife or get your 'helper' pregnant......These are all things to be seriously considered and then discussed with your wife.
2007-01-22 07:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by JuStApReTTyGiRL 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
assist with love making?
now the way this reads it sounds like you mean a helper, someone to hand you a towel or a glass of water or maybe some of the slippery stuff, I wonder if this means they also hold up score cards?
surely you don't mean a lil extra fuckin on the side, cuz if you do, your dead wrong.
2007-01-22 07:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by countryboy1959 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
funny forgot to laugh. I've never caught on to the humor of finding what's hurtful to others as funny. So then they'll say I'm the one that's broken. Ironic? :0
2007-01-22 07:09:48 · answer #5 · answered by Nocine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is a betrayal of trust. Would you be happy for your wife to have a permanent lover on the side, to satisfy her when you can't?
2007-01-22 07:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never. If there are problems in the marriage, resolve them or end the marriage. Affairs are immoral and hurtful.
2007-01-22 07:07:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this show that you don't love your wife because you have no respect or appreciation for her. i can tell you that she will love you longtime. women today like to be abused and mistreated. congratulation buddy. you're pushing all the right buttons
2007-01-22 07:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 4 parts to love.
Respect, emotion ,sex .thought
If all one has is the middle two you have nothing.
Take care!
2007-01-22 07:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a good idea at all. Divorce first then play.
2007-01-22 07:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋