my boyfriend cant be in the same room as a baby he gets wound up but we dont know why i have a 7 year old from a previous relationship and he is fine with her they get on great just dont understand why he cant be in the same room as a new born baby
2007-01-21 22:50:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
only he can explain this one, talk to him about it. Maybe its a fear of newborns they need so much attention and care. They also cry alot whereas your 7yr old is older and past all this stage and he can have fun with them, fool about etc...
Just speak to him and ask him.
It might be something in his past.
2007-01-21 22:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you arent planning to have a baby together then I wouldnt worry to much, he obviously isnt a baby person but if your wanting a baby in the future or this is affecting your relationship then you really need to talk to him about it. Maybe he doesnt like new born babies because he feels uncomfortable ablout the crying, feeding, changing nappies and baby sick...?
2007-01-21 22:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by thedaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want us; perfect strangers to tell you why your boyfriend can't be in the same room with a baby. you got to be goofy.
2007-01-21 23:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you ask him, maybe because they are so helpless it scares him in case they are ill or something and he wouldn't be able to help them, maybe its some kind of phobia that could be reversed, talk to him
2007-01-21 23:02:20 · answer #4 · answered by bluebell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would probably be absolutely fine with his own child,its just other peoples that wind him up.
2007-01-21 22:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by Pat R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have a baby whats the problem?
2007-01-21 22:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by nick w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably just nervous around new babies.
2007-01-21 22:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by zil28ennov 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best things you can do is ask him? he could have a reasonable explanation as to his actions
2007-01-21 22:53:03 · answer #8 · answered by Kirsty N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋