Can any one tell me how to concentrate on work without thinking about the feeling of being lonely all times?

Question

if someone feels lonely so, can he work as a machine without feeling? How can one overcome loneness to do what he should do? Is there any ways to overcome the strong need to love to go on life when being so lonely?

Answer 1

You must learn to alleviate your loneliness by learning to love yourself. Don't look outside yourself for someone else to "complete" you, look within for faith, hope and love, conquer your inner demons by being brutally honest with yourself and coming to terms with your loneliness. If you find love within, love and good, healthy relationships will find you...and don't forget to make light of your inner demons by poking fun at yourself--you might find that you are your own favorite entertainment.

Answer 2

Not sure if you are talking about that just during work you feel lonely because you're working on a machine?

If so, can you try looking for another job that requires you to talk to more people?

Or, if you are talking about feeling lonely because you just broke up with a girlfriend? If so, that feeling will just have to unfortunately pass. While at work you might think and think and think about it. That could be used to your advantage because you can sort things out in your head. Talk to someone about it - that should help.

Or, are you talking about just a feeling of loneliness because you feel you need more friends in your life? If so, join clubs, call a friend to go out and meet people, act friendly and approachable and smile so people will want to become your friend. Help in your community to meet people.

Hope that helps. Good luck!

Answer 3

I found work to be the answer to loneliness and boredom. Really throw yourself into a project (preferrably something you've never tried) and you'll be occupied with that and you'll get a lot of satisfaction when you complete it. I decided to build two extra rooms onto the house and I'm no builder. I used common sense, asked a few questions here and there and the end result was pretty darn good for an amatuer. And I have a great conversation opener...

Answer 4

First of all, you need to understand that to enjoy work one must put some feelings in it. In other words, put your heart into your work and not the other way around. If your work is full of feelings, loneliness will find no place in your work. Work is suppose to displace loneliness and putting your feelings into your work is all that is needed. Concentration means putting your full attention to whatever is at hand and to be able to concentrate on one thing at the moment means putting some order in your work, which requires that you should know how to prioritize them. Orderliness in the workplace would facilitate concentration. Lost concertration is always due to disorderly pattern of activities. Use the principle of Kaizen which means doing things one step at a time. When our thoughts and feelings are balanced, wisdom sits in. Meaning, your choices of moves are always in the right direction. This is so because we always think about our feelings, which means that we always undergo the process of feeling and thinking until we arrive at a proper balance of these two processes and then we make a choice. A well chosen move is a positive product of this feeling and thinking processes. A well chosen move is what we call a wise move. On the other hand these processes, when allowed to go freely, would facilitate concentration and loneliness would simply disappear. This is so because, when you find enjoyment in your work, how can you think about loneliness? Finding enjoyment in your work is the key to bar the feeling of loneliness.

Answer 5

When I'm feeling lonely I either

a) Tough it out.

b) Find a temporary substitute, such as calling a friend or relative.

c) Do my work in the local bookstore coffeeshop, where I know there will be people to chat with, cause I'm a regular. It's not perfect, but it takes the edge off - and I get some work done.

Good luck, honey - I know it sucks.

'This too shall pass'

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Answer 6

1.First and foremost,any work that you are not interested in,most be drop aside or else you will never give your ultimate performance.And i strongly recommend good working conditions for everyone within the organizational chart and good incentive measure most be introduce to boost all staffs.
2.We cannot work as machines do though even the machines are being operated by humans.So,for maximum performers,recess most be introduce for the body to rest
3.You love and still be lonely pending on situation at hand.So,loneliness most come sometimes in our lives but we most find a way of managing it psychologically and live a stress free life

Answer 7

Socially, its always psych to feel lonely. One need to understand the oneness before thinking of being lonely. If you operate a machine, you are acting alone, by self initiatives, to achiev the desired goal.... May be to meet the loved one. So, concetration is self despline, which one choose to loose, by destructing his/her personal mind/attention by mixing his one mind/s with othor "loved ones". So, aim to chieve by yr self, for your self to avoid loness

Answer 8

There's someone for everyone. You just need to find them but that involves looking and hope. don't let it get you down, its nice to have life to yourself sometimes.