good guys that do everything for there partener and are faithfull just seem to get dumped
2007-01-21 21:20:59 · 15 answers · asked by meanstreak007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know why some women are attracted to those men who treat them badly but it does happen quite a bit....however, many of those woman do come around and look for the exact opposite when they have gotten over the bad boy thing......that's when the good guys should be ready to step in and save the damsel! Good luck
2007-01-21 21:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My former husband of 17 yrs. wasn't not faitful in seeing another woman, but just after we married, he brought a big board home, showed it 2 me & said, "This is how we are going 2 control the kids!!" I was going 2 a church at the time that preached very strongly over the pulpit that the woman 'was 2 submit, submit, submit'! I'd become born again shortly before that & began reading the scriptures in the Bible. But now believe, years later, the Pastor 2 the church I DID attend, had taken the scriptures 'out of content'!! But at the time I wanted 2 be obedient 2 God.!! We had a blended family & then had a child between us!! He beat my children, which were from another relationship, beat me & verybally abused us all for 2 many years.. He didn't do this 2 his children, which he 'brought' into the marriage nor 2 our child we had together!!
Why do women stay?? Women stay # 1 because of financial support, I feel!! He controlled the $ & I had 2 plead 4 what little I could get 2 pay our bills, shop thrifty! & he continued 2 hord the rest, I later found out!! I stayed because of my committment 2 God!! I saw how God's word says how much He hates divorce!!! So I endured until 2005 & then literally (after he left 2 more bruises on me!!) took my foot & drew it in the dirt & said 2 myself, out loud,,"NO MORE IS NO MORE!" & I filed 4 divorce this time NOT looking back!!
If u are in an abusive relationship, know in your heart there are places & people u CAN go 2 that will help u out of that situation & help u on 4 a better life 4 yourself... But u must look in your mirror & be strong!! Hope I have helped encourage u..
2007-01-21 21:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by Floydbobskeeper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard this is very very common. Girls who grow up to be women are attracted to the "mean men" for two reasons.
1. They had a mean father and it's all they ever know..
2. They had a strict father and want to be rebellious.
I think it's absurd that ladies don't realize they have something good in their life. I can't believe this is such a common routine. Women crave the bad guy.
Good luck finding someone who is worthy of you!
2007-01-21 21:24:45 · answer #3 · answered by natalie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very true. I think that women are used to being treated a certain way that they know no other. It is sad because more than likely there aren't going to learn and will make the same mistakes in future relationships.
2007-01-21 21:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well because sometimes its to hard to leave my h doesnt cheat or hit me but he is a drunk. and is mentaly abusive to me as in he ignores me and puts his beer first before anything else.. i know this and i know i am not treated rite but we have 2 teen kids and we have house.car, and other bills that neither of us can pay alone and i tried to sell the house so i could leave but it didnt sell so i have no place to go if i did leave but i have a friend who is the best husband and his wife doesnt treat him well either so i know what you mean BUT i can tell you this if i had a good man who treated me with the respect i deserve you can bet your butt i would be very good to him.im not stupid enough to let something like that go. i guess maybe some girls have just always had the best so they dont know they have it good..
2007-01-21 21:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women are co-dependent in many different ways therefore put up with alot more than maybe a woman who isn't normally would. Maybe it's true...Nice Guys Finish Last.
2007-01-21 21:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by norcalguy559 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women that are in bad relationships have a hard time believing that they can do better or that they deserve better. If you are a good guy just keep looking for the right person and keep being good.
2007-01-21 21:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
although all human beings have this capacity (and biological predisposition) to be logical/rational as well as emotional (i.e., we both have the capacity to utilize these two), some women seem to have a more developed emotional side over the other. we become too inclined to our emotions that we sometimes forget when it is time for us to start thinking. we are afraid to get hurt and we always hope for a better tomorrow (i.e., that things will change)... unfortunate?? yes it is!
2007-01-21 21:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by amanuensis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some people just dont know when they've got a good thing. and im a girl and i know what you're talking about. and guys are always treating girls badly, which is why im single
2007-01-21 21:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres a saying love is blind..no matter how bad your love is, still you tend to want to be with him...you know why? coz they love their men...that's true love and if you love him, you tend to accept things in spite of the pain...
2007-01-21 21:38:55 · answer #10 · answered by fashion時尚嬰孩玩偶doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋