i had a relationship with this guy from one and half year and there was no day we din't talk with each other ... we do have fights but we made up the next day..
but the last fight was different i found him very careless about me.. the way he spoke to me so i din't talk to him for one week waiting for his call and finally i called him back.. he told me that he is planning to get married to someone else his parents arranged for him.. i asked for reason.he first said parents won't agree and after few days i called him back to convence him. he said even his parents agree he is not happy with me and started complaining on me that i am too modern, i have friends and i'm outgoing
its 20 days by now i din't talk to him after that.and everyday 24/7 his thoughts run on my mind.there is no day i din't get tears from my eyes..i am suffering alot coz i got used to him alot..if i think of the word husband he is one who comes in my mind..i miss him like hell.should i call him and talk again??
2007-01-21 21:11:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no do not call him...no matter what..i wouldnt visit him on his death bed if i were you..you've wasted too much time on him as it is..move on..you're new life begins today
2007-01-21 21:17:03 · answer #1 · answered by B-Rabbit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely NO!!! Its obvious that you cant hold a relationship with him so what makes you think you will have a happy marriage if it got that far. His parents are the meddling type. Do you really want them interfering in your lives. Chances are they will be the cause of your break up eventually. Dont be scared of going out and finding someone new. Someone who will love you as the way you are. You dont want to be someone that your not, otherwise how do you know its you they really love and not someone they have shaped you to be? Take your time and enjoy your life. Things will happen on their own occord. You will miss him terribly but its amazing how time takes care of that.
2007-01-21 21:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by ktsz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since every time u call, he is also like talking not really good... I think if u call many times he'll also be like this... The best way for me is to give out on him... N stop thinking abt him. U can go out with other friends and meet more new friends and really try to forget abt him.
2007-01-21 21:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st. Looks like he feels hurt by you or he is just has no confidence.
2nd. His parents are surely pushing him and he decided to obey him.
A piece of advice: if you decide to call (and as everything not ended or arranged with you it's better) than you'll better talk with him and tell him that he wouldn't surely be happy with a girl somebody had chosen for him.
2007-01-21 21:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Natalya Ch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sure, it wont be easy to forget somebody whom u luv so much but if u call him and show him lot of care, he would totally take it as a granted. so hang around w/ ur luved ones and go out and relax a lil. things will get better, u just have to calm ur mind. i would say dont call him even if he doesnt call u for really long time.
2007-01-21 21:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by chun l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.i think its time 4 revenge.1st call him and ask for his "wife"and him to meet u somewhere......ask 1 of your friends he doesnt know (a guy) to pretend to be your bf and get him jealous.maybe he will say sorry and get back with u.it really does work
2007-01-21 21:23:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't call him he don't want u and i think he never loved u u must go on in ur life and meet someone who deserve u not that cheater .good luck
2007-01-21 22:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by dew m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tender an apology for your behaviour and try to settle it amicably!
2007-01-21 21:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by SESHADRI K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋