do u plan 2 have? and Y?
2007-01-21 20:23:47 · 21 answers · asked by indian beauty 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not sure at this point. I've always wanted a big family so I would say as many as we can afford, but in reality probably no more than 4 which in today's world is a rather large family.
2007-01-21 20:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by newsoutherngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking none because I'm almost 30 and don't feel the need yet. I don't have the job, house, or money. I don't think I'm mature enough to handle a kid, in some ways I'm still a kid myself, plus I dislike being around kids! I hate it when kids are around, they are so loud and messy, demand all of your attention, say stupid childish things that they think is cute or funny but is really annoying... I just feel like life would be over, freedom would be over and that makes me scared. I don't think I'd make a good mom, Hell I can't even stand the puppy that we have! I want to give it away. On some level that makes me sad, but I can't change how I feel.
2007-01-22 04:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I pan to have two. From growing up around other families, I see that a single child can often become spoilt and find it harder to fit in (I know this is not all, but many), and 3 or more then the kids in the family can tend to gang up on each other (2 againt one etc) and this can hurt there self esteem. With two they are either happy with each other or not happy with each other. And it makes it much easier to buy a car! This is generalising I know.
2007-01-22 04:30:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I plan to have at least 3-4. 6 is the absolute limit. I don't have a big fam, i'm an only child. I want my kids to have a huge family and they will bcuz my fiance has a gigantic fam.
2007-01-22 04:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by stephyrose87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I plan to have as many as I am capable of having because I believe that for everything that happens there is a reason. I have one daughter, another child on the way, one in heaven born stillborn, and one lost to abortion. I believe that we have a forgiving God and he blesses everyone in his own way.
2007-01-22 04:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by Someonesmommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I already have 2 but I would like 1 more. I love and enjoy children; they bring the sunshine into my life!
2007-01-22 04:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jana Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am too old now to have children, plus i have had the snip. I had two children with my first marriage, and i have a step daughter with this marriage, so between us we have too girls and a boy. I had the first two children when i was young with the idea that when they were old enough to look after them selves i would still be young enough to go out and do things, and travel.
2007-01-22 04:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ma x 2
2007-01-22 04:26:45 · answer #8 · answered by Shaista 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just would like 1 boy and 1 girl. How many doesn't matter to me. I just don't want all of one gender.
2007-01-22 05:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do plan to have kids when i am married cause i have a generation to keep alive and u too.
2007-01-22 04:28:47 · answer #10 · answered by Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋