i asked a normal question, (tell me guys cuz i'm curious, which do u prefere smoker or non-smoker girls... drinker or non-drinker girls... virgin or unvirgin ones?) why did they delete the question n the answers...i got like 30 answers...i just wanted to know how do egyptians men think??? was I wrong?
2007-01-21 20:06:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Egypt
thank you guys for your answers i like most of them specially kalooka and fldrod...
but i still wonder why do we really act like open minded people when we r not deep inside? why is it ok for a guy to smoke, drink and be unvirgin while it's forbbiden for girls...in my opinion our confusing society allow things for guys and forbid the same things for girls...it should be forbidden for both...btw i'm a non smoker, non drinker and a virgin...i like non smoker guys, non drinker and i donno about the third one :)
2007-01-22 17:58:38 · update #1
Very interesting question, good for u to ask such a question. Alot of people seperate the person they'll fall in love w/ from the person they'll marry. For example, it's ok to date a girl who smokes, drinks or is even not virgin, but when it comes to the topic of marriage, these are a big NO NOs. It's ok for the guy if he smokes, drinks, not a virgin, but how dare a girl if she does any of that. We still live in a stereotypical society. It's even shamful sometimes if the girl dated innocently. It's like she did the most forbidden thing. It's the way we were raised and the way our parents were raised. It's something I don't see changing easily. Even if we claim that we are very open minded, deep down we still frown up such things...
2007-01-22 16:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by fldrod 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no you weren't.
Probably some over sensitive, chicken mind, reported your question.
what a shame! i loved that question.
my answer to your deleted question is:
I prefer non-smoker (because smoking makes bad breath and also may harm infants if i chose her as a wife)
I prefer non-drinker (because drinking sometimes bring the person out of his "normal" good judgment, and always lead to regret)
The virginity thing is something relative. meaning it differs in some situations and with some personalities and special circumstances. (assuming that no pre-marital sex is involved in the "unvirginity" issue)
but generally i don't have a special preference in that issue.
Men always respect the woman who is respectful. and being respectful is labeled in this community by certain do's and dont's which differ from one society to the other. Our society does not appreciate much the smoker or the drinker and of course the unvirgin due to premarital sex.
2007-01-21 20:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by Kalooka 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
as i told you before WHEN U LOVE U DONT CARE WHATS THE MATTER WITH THE GIRL U LOVE ,
BUT WHEN U R GOING TO MARRY ITS NOT UR OWN CHOICE , THERE IS A FAMILLY , FRIENDS , SOCIETY , ALL THESE THINGS AFFECT ur choice , and thats why u choose virgin non smoker non drinker girls , its easy
2007-01-22 08:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by ancient_egyptian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pure for the pure and the impure are for impure
Woman should be pure to have a pure man and vice versa.
Impure man is searching for a pure woman and finally he is deceived and get married to impure woman like him.
I advise the poster who ask the question to be pure to have a pure man.
الطيبات للطيبيين و الطيبون للطيبات و الخبيثون للخبيثين و الخبيثون للخبيثات
In Egypr we do have traditions and cutoms so far applied for only women. but We should apply it to both men and women without differentiation.
To step to a good society we need to begin with ourselves and not to look to others
Slaam butter and good luck
2007-01-23 08:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by Newborn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen some jerks they keep doing this . but any way we in egypt (Girls) we smoke we drink (it depends on the girl) we do anything that is ok like anywhere in the world and some other communities they dont allow drinking and smoking for the girl, yes virginity is a big issue for both types but there are some families they understand , some solve the problem by make the girl marry the guy who did that to her or they short cut it and kill her but this in the very very conservative families and thats according to their culture
2007-01-22 02:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by ReDWiNe 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
For me as a smoker i find female smokers more attractive than those non smokers regarding drinking and virginity i don't care that much as it doesn't matter for me
2015-08-16 23:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by karim alaily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for marriage, we prefer the non-smoker, non-drinker and virgin girls, it's related to religion and traditions
otherwise, it doesn't matter.
2007-01-22 05:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by saeed 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whatever, I am not picky. It's not like girls r lining up for me to choose.
As long as she can "see" , then she is fine. I have a very weak eye-sight and I would love to have someone who can type without a magnifier.
2007-01-22 05:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The self appointed PC police probably reported you, I like your questions.
2007-01-21 20:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised they did,who are these narrow minded ppl whom reported your question,anyway here is my answer again.
"I'm not a guy but I think they prefer, non,non and not Un"
2007-01-21 21:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by Maro's mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋