I feel like I should have told her before we had sex... and then children... but now she has it and I didn't want to admit that I gave it to her so I accused her of cheating on me and then hit her. Is that ok?
2007-01-21 20:05:47 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
P.S. You guys don't get it... My wife is really fat, so it's ok to hit her. That's not the question.
2007-01-21 20:21:20 · update #1
Yea, I would say that's cool.
He's playing you, you damn fool answerers. God, people are naive.
2007-01-21 20:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 6⤋
Yes, there isn't any. Herpes is caused by a virus. Actually, there is little cure for viruses nowadays. The only thing that you can generally do in the case of a viral infection is strengthen the immune system and hope it fights it off. Not with Herpes, the immune system can't win against it. Thus you only get to treat the symptoms. Once you're infected, it stays with you for life. So don't get infected.
Personal experience. I have had genital herpes for over 5 years.
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2016-05-15 13:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not ONE part of this is okay. First, if you ever really loved her you would have told her before you had sex and had children. Not only have you infected your wife, but you also put your children at risk.
Second, accusing her of cheating on you and hitting her for your own misfortune is more wrong than you will ever know. And your last comment about it being okay to hit her because she is fat is just disgraceful! It is NEVER okay to hit a woman..... no matter her size.
About the herpes... come clean. Be honest and decent for once.
2007-01-21 20:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by newsoutherngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally I wouldn't flame someone, but you have it coming! How could you! You would blame her? I am surprised that they didn't catch it in the first pregnancy because they run a FULL battery of tests just to make sure that there are no issues like that. Syphilis can cause blindness in babies when they are born. Did ya think of that? I can't believe you. Unreal. If you love her, you'd better come clean and tell her you are very VERY SORRY for the whole cheating on you bit and the not being honest. If you can't be honest about that, what else are you hiding from her?
2007-01-21 20:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by BeckyT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
holly sh*t no! no no no! that is domestic abuse she can call the cops have you booked arrested and in jail! she needs to divorce your a*s! sorry but 1) you're a idiot for not telling her the truth before you had sex. 2) you knew you had it use a condom! 3) you gave it to her, she's gonna have that for the rest of her life, and you couldnt prevent that! 4) you were ashamed of not telling her now that she has it from you and you accused her of cheating when you know the god damn truth! 5) you hit her, ive been in a abusive relationship and have had bruises all over my face for weeks at a time and thats the ultimate no no! divorce her leave her with everything! she's deserves better than a pathetic jerk off! and you better tell her ASAP she needs to get tested and get medicines to control it!
2007-01-21 20:16:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think what you did was perfectly okay, i see no problem with giving her herpes, blaming it on another man then hitting her...you may even want to hit her a few more times then maybe she'll lose a little weight because if she's fat enough to where it's okay for you to hit her then she needs to do something about it. Keep up the good work!
2007-01-21 20:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She gave birth and you KNEW she has the virus?
That makes you one seriously sad individual.
If the virus had been present at the birth of the child then it would have been spread over the babies body. Thats a bad thing. She could have had a cesarian. If the kid did pick it up then its going to be getting some awful times.
You are sad and sick. Wife and kids deserve better than you
2007-01-21 20:15:34 · answer #7 · answered by philip_jones2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You hit her and then ask if that is Okay? Are you crazy, mad or psychic? What you did was wrong and unforgivable. She's your wife for crying out loud and you gave her the herpes. You need to have a look at your attitude and self-conscience and behave.
2007-01-21 20:33:13 · answer #8 · answered by divagal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok it looks like it is time for you to say you are sorry
well if you are in love with her then you will
yes it is going to be hard for her to get over it looking at what you did but you do need to give her that piece of mind
she mind be going out of her mind trying to find out how she got it and gave it to you
so start off be saying you are sorry and make sure you tell her why you did it if you know
2007-01-21 20:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by yomom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell your wife as soon as possible. if it's possible to tell her now, then do it!
what are you doing? accusing your wife of your own mischief? huh! unbelievable! anyway...perhaps your conscience keeps on bugging you...that's why you ask opinion from other people...
i tell you, indeed the truth will set you free. for once in your life, take a stand, yes...the consequences might hurt you and your wife, but that's life...truth hurts. being honest with your wife is the only way, to have peace and bring back harmony in your life.
God bless and forgive you!
2007-01-21 20:20:17 · answer #10 · answered by cheen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't a troll who is making this BS up, your wife and children are better off without you. Kindly do the human race a favor and remove yourself from the company of other people, particularly smaller ones.
2007-01-21 20:11:35 · answer #11 · answered by Guernica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋