she's really upset about her compicated life right now,like her boy issues, and family issues like she has 20 years old guy and shes teeager he dont think she knows that she likes him but i think he kinda liked her and he said hes gonna wait 2 years for her. but she found out that he has a girfriend now and shes really sad and she feels like she doesnt wanna go to school anymore because of guy problem and her family problem and i told her "forget about it" but shes said it doesnt work what should i say to her? she also asked me what can she do to be happier? and she said "what do i do about my guy problems?" please help me what do u think she should do? please be serious i wanna help her out thanks a lot
2007-01-21 19:50:12 · 4 answers · asked by bianca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know.....girl, guy problems almost always create such situations where atleast one person feels very depressed and sad because of it.
My advice to your frend wud be that she must, MUST forget about it. Some relationships are meant to be broken and all relationships dont always end a happy ending.
Some times in life......one must foget someone else in order to maintain healthy mental state.
I think your frend needs some encouragment that there are many other guys out there who are more faithfull and better for her. You also must force her to forget about the guy who cheated on her.
2007-01-21 19:58:27 · answer #1 · answered by Romeo (The Original) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very nice of you to care, but the drama is a little too much. She has your attention and your pity. It sounds like she needs to grow up and get moving. You need to find something else to do or someone else to talk to. She BETTER figure out how to handle this on her own...life is full of issues and she won't always have you around. This is obviously a young immature person--it shows big time!!!Is this the only thing that she has to care about??? She better get to school before she ruins her entire future life.
2007-01-22 04:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you as her friend need to tell her positive things like
I'm glad that you're not with him because he would probably treat you bad and you are my friend and as your friend I have to look out for you
so don't be sad anymore because people like that shouldn't bring you down
2007-01-22 04:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by Gelica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a psychologist for her or someone to talk to
2007-01-22 03:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋