Why do some have it so easy and others have it so hard?

Question

I know life's not fair, but isn't it pretty ridiculous that some kids are dying in Africa from AIDS and other people have good health and more money than they can handle?

It's also pretty unfair that some are mentally handicapped and others are geniuses.

Also, some guys have no trouble with the ladies while others are neurotic and have to work really hard.

Some people have talent others don't and have to work hard.

Man I'm pissed, but I don't believe in God so I'm not sure what to be pissed off at.

Note: not bad at Satan because I would rather be mad at the thing who made the world, not some scapegoat (Satan). Remember, it was God who punished Adam and Eve for disobeying him one, when they had no reference at all for why they shouldn't disobey him. Isn't that a bit harsh?

But I digress...

Answer 1

Life is easy for people who live life in easy way , they love theirselves and feel happy about being humans , but it's hard for people that always see life is difficult and they don't know , accept and love themselves
you need to love yourself and feel happy of being human , you 'll see that life is easy
you are the only one responsible to your life and future
Love 2 you

Answer 2

I realize the children everywhere are suffering and the answer I don't know exactly and maybe not even a clue? But one thing for sure it is not God doing it. And man is greedy and that is one answer. Although life is a gamble and to gamble with lives, like breeding without stability? Birth control is a problem isn't it in Africa and many other places as well. But money can't cure aids, hiv, or what ever all the time. Sometimes there is no way because their body is just not capable of taking the treatments prescribed I have seen these cases here. America has got to address it's own right now for us to correct our own health issues is imperative for the future, so we will then be able to help others as well. But not until we solve our own troubles. Working hard is life and that is the luck of the draw and sometimes it is just what we are suppose to do, and focus on our lives and appreciate the time we have here to enjoy with our loved ones. Money and success can be a very lonely life too.

Answer 3

Why does everyone want to be mad at God? If you're going to be mad at someone for all the woes in the world, try being mad at satan. After all, he's the one that introduced sin into the world and messed up Eden. Life isn't fair. That's why the "haves" need to live responsibly toward the "have-nots." Each person, no matter where they live or what circumstance they find themselves in, must learn to turn disadvantage into advantage. As far as those who can't help themselves (dying babies in Africa for instance), they should be helped by those who do have the money and health to change things. The question is, what are you personally doing to change things for the better? Use that force of anger energy to creatively make a difference, not just waste away being vaguely mad. What good is that? EVERY negative in the world is an opportunity for the positive to act.

Answer 4

The best thing is to just live your own life. There are people helping those in Africa, and well not all of us are able to keep up with this fast paced world.

Instead of being pissed at things, try instead to look after yourself, look after your friends and family and maybe when you earn enough or are retired you might decide to sponder a child or an organisation that helps less fortunate people (or creatures).

And those who have it easy, don't know how much it takes to pull through difficult times. It is the hard times that make you stronger.

And no one has everything, some people are intelligent and have hopeless social skills, others the complete opposite. No life is perfect, you just a have to fight your way through the worst bits and relish the moments where you feel happy and free.

Answer 5

I have a theory of my own... here it goes for what it may be worth!!

The universe runs on the principle of dynamic balance.... since it all started from zero, at any point in time, if you add up or sum up the whole, the net result ought to be zero. Since changes are also happening all the time, the balancing is also equally dynamic. This means that if some have it easy, others must have it hard... it also means that if some are having it easy now, they will have it hard some other time... it further means that if one is having it easy in terms of some aspects of life, then the same person must be having it hard in some other aspects.

If we have to blame, it has to be this zero from which everything started, but zero is nothing.... so we can't blame anything. We can't even consider it as any injustice because the principle of dynamic balance is fairly and consistently ruling. If we still feel there is injustice, then rather than trying to place blame on any quarter, we can try help to our ability those who we believe are the victims of such injustice.... it will give us better peace of mind than ascertaining blame on any quarter.

Answer 6

All I can say is that if we understood what was meant to go on in life, then everyone would be on the same page. But we're not. Things happen and some people just end up in a better position than others. Sometimes the only thing you can do with life is to live it.

Answer 7

Assuming there is no God,...
Somethings are what they are my friend. Nothing you can always do about it. More you understand this, the less frustrated you will get.
It takes a strong mind and a strong heart to understand this. Few do.

Answer 8

No one has it easy,and I agree with you that life is not fair.But good or bad,things happen for a reason.