I am an average looking woman who is looked at by many men. Of course this is all normal. But what gets me is when I'm sitting in a resturant and this older man who is ugly and sitting with a woman looks at most of the girls and gives her the eye. Most of the girls are young and cute and could probably get most men if they wanted. I can't help but give a dirty look to a man like that. How do they get their nerve?
2007-01-21 19:00:58 · 16 answers · asked by keeptrying4sure 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I want to clarify that these guys do this to me too, not just the young girls. It makes me quiver to think they should be acting like this. They should be happy they have a woman who is willing to sit with them.
2007-01-22 08:32:56 · update #1
Some men think they irresistable to women, let them carry on thinking like this, its just them that thinks it. If they get up your nose tell them to get lost!
2007-01-22 03:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Little Minx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the young girl that he is flirting with and how much he promise to give her most older men think they can pull young girls because money excite younger girls and especially if they are been mistreated at home or if the mother can not afford to give them what they want, so to them it do not matter if the man is old and ugly, these young girls call the older man their sugar daddy's.And the older men know that the have averaged over the younger boys that can not afford to give the younger girls what they want.
2007-01-22 03:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know an older mens think that if they have money they can buy women like a meat in a grocery shop. Because they are insecure - that is their way to make them notice. But they do not ralise that no matter your looks are, if you are a normal person yuo will find yourself a partner.
Older guys want to be notice, they need to have a good looking women with them so that they can show others they are powerful, but they are not.
So you just have to smile at their stupidity, because you know them, you know what they want and why.
2007-01-22 03:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sekmeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they are doing this because they think that they don't have anything to lose. They know that they are not handsome so they try this to every woman with the hope that maybe one of all these females will want the same thing from them.
They try their luck and if they don't get any interest of a beatiful woman they keep going.
2007-01-22 03:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by HeAvEnLy_PiNk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe cuz they use to have it & were womanizers when they were younger. OR.... they picked up alot of desperate or amorous gals in a bar & think they're all that cuz of it....
She said he's not just looking at the gals but giving them the eye....
2007-01-22 03:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by Nocine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey most older guys know they don't have a lot longer to look and enjoy...Looks...if he was hitting on you i could see how his looks would affect you....but he's looking at someone else..hey if ya don't like it don't look.....older people need love too even if it's a fantasy!
Maybe one day you will find out!
2007-01-22 03:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by snickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heaven forbid an older guy who, in your opinion, isn't attractive should look at other girls and find them attractive. Ugly people aren't allowed to find a young cute girl attractive? Or do you mean he should only be looking at ugly girls?
2007-01-22 03:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes older men are just looking..
Men like to look at pretty girls....
Sometimes these older men are quite wealthy
and powerful and can have as many cute
young girls as they want...
2007-01-22 03:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
MEN ARE JUST THIS WAY THEY ARE VISUAL AND WOMEN ARE EMOTIONAL. I MEAN MOST MEN ARE GOING TO LOOK AT AN ATTRACTIVE GIRL TILL THEIR 90 AND APPRECIATE HER LOOKS, HOWEVER A NASTY MAN IS THE ONE WHO GIVES HER A GRUNT AND A GROWL AS HE WALKS BY AND BUMPS INTO HER JUST TO GET A SNIFF OF HER AND A LIL BOOBIE BUMP. THATS THE ONE YOU BETTER STEER CLEAR OF AND THERE ARE ALOT OUT THERE.
2007-01-22 04:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know...... my first time out with my hubby i'll never forget this guy at the bar...... he was leering at me and he looked like jaba the hut! i was so disgusted!
and my boss's assistant manager is always coming onto young chicks. it's frikkin gross. and then he wonders why the girls keep quiting? like ewwww
2007-01-22 03:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋