We are engaged. He was into sex more in the beginning. Now it is maybe once a week. I offer it every night but he usually just says he is tired and starts snoring away or he just doesn't feel well. When I leave the house, sometimes he will run to the computer and do his porn thing. He denies it because he knows how I feel but I always know. I don't understand. Most guys complain that the woman doesn't give out. We are both in our thirtees and have been together for 2 yrs. What do I do? Oh and he wont watch it with me b/c he says he doesn't want me seeing the naked guys...go figure...
2007-01-21 18:54:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
time to get a new boyfriend things will get wrost if you get married.
2007-01-21 19:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by lady_jane_az 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-17 20:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do would probably be.. just to talk to him, tell him how you feel. Is your relationship doing well? Has he always looked at porn? Ask yourself these questions. If your relationship isn't doing very well then sometimes the sex life goes down the drain until things are worked out. If he has always looked at porn, then it's probably going to be harder for him to stop. With some men, also some women, porn is an addiction and it's very hard for them to quit looking at it. But it depends on how long he has been looking at porn, and he might not be addicted. I'm just saying it could be a possibility. But if the relationship is doing fine and nothing has changed then like I said before, I would just talk to him about it, ask him what's going on. And the whole thing with, he can look at porn, and it's fine, but you can't look at porn because he doesn't want you to see the other men naked.. it's all about men having double standards, and it's true, they do..
2007-01-21 19:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by xxjune242006xx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm. There's a problem for sure. You are engaged? Right. This would indicate he is searching more than the net. He is fed up with what's at home and wants to check the field.
Brutal? Yes, but read the signs.
Take the safe option. Walk. Move out or if it's your place, ask him to leave. If you are scared of what he may do if you ask him to go, inform the local police of your intentions.
These signs must be heeded or you are in for a hell of a life.
2007-01-21 19:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a toughie. I personally think sex is not the most important thing in a relationship but if you feel that strongly about it you may want to have a serious heart to heart with your partner because if you are not being taken care of at home then you will definitely stray.
If talking to your partner doesn't work then you will have to evaluate is the relationship worth saving. If not move on.
2007-01-21 19:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by pinky5159 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
porn is an art, and he may be admire with that arts, for the case of rejection sex may be he is tired so much these days.
there are times over year man loose his sexual appeal,and doesn't want to have sex,special between seasons.
try to watch him over these times during the year
2007-01-22 01:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a problem which the 2 of you will have to work out.
2007-01-22 02:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time say ur going shopping, and hide in the closet when he jerking it, and when in the middle of it jump out bare *** naked and mount his unit as fast as u can and bum-*** roamp him until he squirts, that should work.
2007-01-21 19:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF he does not get help things will just get worse- do you want to live w that or have that in a marriage- he needs help - and like most addictions - they usually come first-sorry to hear it- get counseling- there is help-D
2007-01-21 19:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hes a guilty porn nut, rick is 75 and still has thousands of pictures on here and dozens of tapes. and seldom has sex with me. he doesnt care if i watch but who wants to see all that grunt grunt junk. men dont change.
2007-01-21 20:02:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋