Sometimes you love someone that's well, wrong for you. Can we choose who we love, so make ourselves NOT love "the wrong person", or can we simply not help our emotion?
2007-01-21 18:31:36 · 29 answers · asked by ~*Isabel*~ 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No u can't choose who u love cos love is an emotion and we have no control over our emotions.
2007-01-21 18:39:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I believe love happens. U cant just choose to love or hate someone. I think inside all of us there is a protrait of what kind of person we want in our life. From time to time ur preferences might change a little but dont think any drastic change really happens. Thats why some ppl makes the same mistake always.
2007-01-21 18:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by mermaid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can't help what we're attracted to. Attraction is a spur of the moment thing. If we could choose, then we would all choose somebody that our family and friends approve of, to prevent drama. We'd choose unmarried people. But it's not "love" until you have gone into a deeper relationship with that person. If it was wrong in the first place, then why pursue your infactuation?
2007-01-21 18:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by fliptastic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the most part we can control it, but there are times when it just happens. When you run into and fall for the "wrong person" you need to let your brain take over and get away from them. No matter how much you think you love them if there is a reason you are terming them the "wrong person" then run far far away. You'll get over them in time, but if you stay too long you might get hurt worse than a broken heart.
2007-01-21 18:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by neverland_mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To some extent yes you can. If you are in love with someone who is very wrong for you and you get away from it; after enough time you will see what could have happened and be relived you made the best decision. I knew I was.
2007-01-21 18:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by Sara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think we can control who we are attracted to, but who we love? yes. You make a conscious decision to act in a loving way to a person after the initial physical attraction wanes. Love may be an emotion, but we can change our emotions by controlling our thoughts.
2007-01-21 18:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by territizzyb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. but if you love the "wrong person" it doesnt mean you have to be in a relationship with them. Sometimes its best to stay away from someone you love if it worries you.
2007-01-21 18:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we can't help who we love...it's an emotion after all, and those usually just kind of happen. People can try and block their feelings for someone but that doesn't mean they don't exist.
2007-01-21 18:43:46 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will possibly decide for Love funds could purchase slightly happiness, yet no longer the happiness of true love. You relatively have a real soulmate than a private jet. And mutually as many human beings could declare they might decide for love too... you're between the few who might actually do it.
2016-10-31 23:30:53 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can choose who we love but remember that they also must choose you which is not in your hands.
So, most of the times we end up with wrong persons.
2007-01-21 18:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by jaggie_c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋