my best friend sent me a messege that a boy is having crush on her and that she want to know what to do, so i called hert and told her to break all relationships with him as i feel insecure for her that maybe he will break her heart and also at this juncture she need to concentrate on her studies. i don't want that she get hurt, but then i thought that have i done right or behaved as nazist?plz help me?
2007-01-21 17:57:13 · 7 answers · asked by RICHA M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dear lady, you have not mentioned the age of yours or the concerned, your questions reveal that you are caring or say protective for her. But everyone has to face his or her destiny on her own. One can only advise in the right earnest, to follow or not depends on the individual concerned. Since, your friend is studying I can say your advise is the best, more so, in this modern age, usually people either flirt or have infactuation. nothing else. I think girls should act smartly, to ascertain, whether its love or plain crush.
2007-01-21 18:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by S.C a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you I would have asked my friend if she likes him as well? And if she says yes, I would encourage her to know the guy better before taking any decisions. Studies are also important. So my 2nd advice to her will be to also juggle her studies well along with her relationship. Your concern is justified but sometimes we are not supposed to live another person's life for them. They have to live and learn. Dat's what friendship is all about. :)
2007-01-21 18:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by th1608 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your a guy then it sounds like you like her for more than just a friend. You don't want to see her with anyother guy. If your a girl then you are afraid of losing a best friend. Just picture yourself in her shoe. Everyone has to live their own life.
2007-01-21 18:10:04 · answer #3 · answered by sunny_98146 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um, that was a little harsh... i know you are just trying to protect and watch out for your friend, but sometimes you just have to take chances with stuff, and your friend may have liked this guy too... Maybe istead of dictating talk to your friend about it, listen to what she has to say and be patient and support her whatever she decides to do....
2007-01-21 18:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by buttafly_biattch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should have not been fast to say that.Sometimes,just advice her to do what her heart is really telling her but dont be too direct.she too may be having a crush...
2007-01-21 18:04:52 · answer #5 · answered by babyface82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all if fair in love and war, but remember you can't always be there to protect her.
2007-01-21 18:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by sassyhotbitch20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-21 18:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by KATEL 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋