Ok I was at a swing club last night and I say my mother-in-law in one of the rooms ( I won't even go into the fact that she was with the guy I was with last weekend). My problem is that my husband also goes to that club. I don't want him to walk in and see his mother there (my father-in-law would die if he knew that any of us were there). Should I confront my mother-in-law and let her know that I saw her and to be careful about her son being there, or tell my husband. The problem is that there are not many clubs around. The only plus side to me is I now know that I can party with my mother-in-law.
2007-01-21 16:47:41 · 28 answers · asked by sexyladyinak 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok, this is an area that demands some cautious forethought.
1. The SAFE way. Tell them both so that they don't accidentally pick each other up or meet in some other type of disconcerting way. Then they can each decide where they want to go with the information.
2. The WILD way. Set up a meeting time for them to both meet you at the club (without either of them knowing that the other will be there) and sit back and watch the fireworks. Who knows what kind of interesting things will happen?
2007-01-21 17:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by NorthStar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely dont tell your husband. The best thing would be to stay out of it, however, perhaps you want to tell your mother in law in a nice way that you mean well, care for your father in law and letting her know with the best intentions.
2007-01-21 16:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sexy lady!!!
NO, I don't think you should tell your matter in law anything!!
She is a mature well rounded person, and if she is there is because, something is missing at home, the same thing I tell you!
Any one that goes to any place NO matter which one that is, knows before hand that if you don't want people to see you or know that you were there, the best thing is NOT TO GO!!!
I think you should worry about yourself!!! Because in those places you can catch more than a cold!!!
GOOD LUCK, GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
ALLIV Z
2007-01-21 16:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EWWWW. I wouldn't want to party with my mother-in law in a swingers club........
Anyways...I would say tell your husband if you don't want him to be extremely upset by you not confiding in him.
Then tell your mother-in law that you saw her there. Maybe your father-in law frequents there to, who knows? This could be a family event here. Gross!
2007-01-21 19:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by LC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her, although I believe the drama is inevitable due to the fact that there aren't alot of clubs there so it's possible that some of your in laws friends may have seen her too.
2007-01-21 16:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your MIL a heads up and put your heads together on how to tell or not tell your husband/her son.
The reason I say to maybe not tell your husband is because who really wants to know these sorts of things about their parents.
2007-01-21 16:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the mom in law would be a whole lot better off hearing this from you than having her son catch her. That could be really traumatizing to all concerned.
2007-01-21 16:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by Polly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do I read that you are cheating on your husband and your mother-in-law is cheating on your father-in-law? If that's accurate, then in the words of Judge Judy as to what both of you are doing there is a substantial probability that both of your lives are going to be miserable! Knock it off before it's too late for all of you.
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2016-10-31 23:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by boddie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy Cow! THAT woke me up from a boring night.
I would tell your husband and have HIM tell his mother.
I wouldn't want that job. She might become defensive or something.
I don't know but maybe one night you'll see your father in law there. Who knows? LOL!
2007-01-21 16:52:52 · answer #10 · answered by Molly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋