everyone i know thinks thats shes bi but idk.they tell me that when shes around me they pick up on the vibes. she gets mad when she sees me talkin to another girl. she will act all stuck up and like shes mad at me.shes very possessive of me. everyone has notcied that too. ive talked to her about it and she says nothings wrong. i catch her checkin me out. when im lookin at sumthin or im zoned out i can feel her lookin at me and when i look at her she looks away really fast and her face gets red. she laughs at everything i say even when its not really funny. she wants me to go everywhere with her. she brings up our lez. friend out of nowhere when it has nothin to do with the convo we were haveing.she constantly tells me she has no problem with that stuff. she has also told me that she has never been with a girl and doesnt know if she will ever try. does that mean she has thought about it?if any bi girls wanna talk to me more cuz theres alot more to the story it would be appreciated thanx
2007-01-21 16:36:46 · 6 answers · asked by rockinweirdo 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think that's more than enough to tell that she's into women and she *definitely* has a thing for you. What you can do is entirely up to you depending on your beliefs, sexuality, relationship status, etc.
2007-01-21 16:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow...that was A LOT of information. lol I'm gonna be completely honest here and say that it doesn't sound like you guys should be together. There's no trust, and without that there is no way you can make a relationship work. I think he was wrong to be sending those kinds of messages to other girls (cos you can bet there has been more than one) if he knew you wouldn't like it. He was, however, more wrong to call you those names. You should NEVER be with someone that disrespects you in that way. Have some pride and walk away, you'll be much, much stronger for it. I have a boyfriend of five years and he has never once called me any of those things. I don't even think you really love him, do you? ( You said 'he "makes" me say I love you') so you've got to ask yourself, 'Is he worth it?'. It doesn't sound like it to me. Take your friends advice and leave him, find yourself some one better. :-) Good luck.
2016-05-24 13:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like a truthful or mature enough person to even have as a friend. If you aren't gay, and don't want to be associated with her in that way, break the friendship off, in no uncertain terms and go about your business.
Even if she's not actively gay, she is possessive, and that spells trouble.
2007-01-21 16:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she might just really like you....thats not the way to go about liking a person, but maybe you should push everything aside, get to the question(without being offensive), and get the answer, just dont be mean if the answer is not what you want.
2007-01-21 18:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by adriboho 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey... i guess from the stuff u sed she definatly has a thing for u... and mb she's trying to tell u in an indirect way lol.. but she doesnt wanna do the 1st step cos she doesnt wanna ruin the friendship so i guess she's waiting for u to bring it up... if ur interested then ask her when u two are alone...
and if u don wanna go to tht step, just ignore it and try to make ur friendship as straight as possible...
2007-01-21 18:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her get mad. Try to stay out of the drama triangle!
2007-01-21 16:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋