Before you enter into a relationship, do you make sure there is compatibility, or do U jump in with both feet?

Question

figuring you can make it work by adapting to each other, changing the other person, or compromising? And how much adapting, changing, and compromising actually occurs?

Answer 1

Changing another person 'NEVER' works!
Adapting comes naturally anyway, in any new relationship.
Compromising is always a part of a 'two-fold', whether it be marriage, business, relationships etc, there is always some form of compromising to do to keep a balance of peace, and equality.
So, to answer your question!
If you are not compatible with a lover, likes, dislikes, veiws,
oppinion of things, your dreams for the future, etc.
If you two don't have similar charactoristics and beliefs of all these things, then of course there will be friction at times, as there is in any relationship.
But the more you can agree with each other the better chance you have of making it, and it's called 'compatibility!!
So Yes, you better be compatible first!!

Answer 2

Well I've only had one serious boyfriend and that's the one I'm with now, and he's the one that I want to be with for the rest of my life. There has to be an instant connection, it can't be physical it has to be personality wise. My boyfriend and I have both changed a lot in our relationship. Love is compromise and comfortability. If you're not willing to change or if you're not comfortable that's not a relationship.I knew I loved him the first day, one day is all it takes sometimes. When I got to know him, I loved him even more. At first I was a little worried about our relationship, but after we talked out the problems that each other had and what needed to change, things are working good. Our relationship is perfect. I hope this helps you.

Answer 3

What does your gut tell you? iF YOU DO GO FOR IT. There is NO compromise or adaption YOU share and learn form each other and you discover the differences. Your negative thoughts tell me that you are no way ready to JUMP IN> If you are ....then you have some serious changing of the mind before you get into the relationship. Positive thinking can make the difference.

Answer 4

Dont count on changing the other person much - if at all - Theres tons of compromising and adapting which you would do automatically if you truly love that person.

I would go with compatibility. One of the best way to figure that is when there isnt much to do but just hang out with each other. Another way is see how things go when there is some sort of stressor going on either for your partner or you or both and see how that goes. Does that work for you? If not then move on. PS Dont stage a stressor. Good chance youll piss off your partner.

Answer 5

i think of the older you get the greater you recognize you choose/decide for to be your self, and much less compromising approximately own concerns. yet you in addition to could understand which you would be able to provide up issues that are way much less significant for the stable of a courting. entering right into a courting now i might make confident that their replaced into relatively some compatibility, yet greater advantageous than that, that their replaced into chemistry.

Answer 6

You should be yourself and not change much but you both have to change and adapt to each other

Answer 7

i make sure were compatable , whats the point of going into a relationship if your not

Answer 8

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Answer 9

I think you just jump in and go for it.

Answer 10

I'm stupid so I pull out the trampoline