I feel awful about snooping but we have been having problems in our relationship for a few months and I have been very suspicious about his behaivior as of late. His bag goes everywhere with him but today he left it home, open and with the pic sticking out of it. I saw the pic and pulled it out, read it and stuck my hand further into the pocket to see what other treasures I would find...14 condoms is what I got! He has been cold and not really feeling me these days and we have not used comdoms since 05...
2007-01-21 16:32:46 · 26 answers · asked by I'm her mommy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh, and we are expecting our first baby soon our baby shower is next week and we closed escrow on a new home last week. I feel so stuck and pissed because I KNOW something is up but am scared because of all that is at stake here.
I don't want things to be akward and obvious at the party so maybe I should wait to confront him till after. I was also thinking that maybe I will just not move into the new home with him. I just don't know what to do about this, the timing is so screwed. Help!!
2007-01-21 17:59:25 · update #1
He's probably not having an affair with the porn actress but I'm sure she's inspsired him..otherwise why in hell would he need condoms? You need to have a serious talk with this loser....................
2007-01-21 16:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-20 11:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have met porn stars before, usually nothing really happens with them, you get pic maybe a hug and than next in line. Now the pic could be a pic of stripper that he likes, which in most strip clubs you can get. As for the condoms, I know that if I found them on my boyfriend than I would KNOW something is up.
2007-01-21 17:21:21 · answer #3 · answered by linus1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As quickly as we all want to say "He's cheating on you!" or "Trust your gut instincts girl! Women have a way of knowing, and I'm sure you know in your heart of hearts what he's doing." I think, and I can't believe I'm going to say this, but...X ME OUT made a quirky but possibly, valid excuse. Is it possible that he attended a trade-show/convention? If I were you I would admit my wrong doing of snooping, explain why you did it (Announcing your vulnerability) and ask him where he got the stuff. I wouldn't feed him any idea's of where it could have come from, I would just listen and observe all of his reactions. Remember you've already imagined the worst, it can only get better from here! Good Luck!
2007-01-21 17:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by knrsits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him be with his porn Ho's guys like that deserve that trash! It wont last long it never does. He's a JERK! why wouldn't he have the nerve to just FESS UP to his problems. Really he's got issues and NO BALLS! He is not the kind of guy you wanna keep around any ways. E-bay the pic and the condoms and leave him.
2007-01-21 16:48:42 · answer #5 · answered by SecretFriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would ask him straight out about it.
Ask him in a calm tone what is it all about and really take notice of his answer, if he looks you in the eye or if he just brushes you off as though he doesn't even care what you think.
Don't come across aggressive in any way or he will not respond well.
Why does he have condoms though if you too haven't been using them.
I think you know what this is all about!!
2007-01-21 16:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It appears that he has visited a "trade-show"/"convention" where a porn-star was signing autographs and giving out condoms as a "give-away"....this is common at some trade shows...Not to worry. He probably took the condoms because they were free. That is what people do at these shows; take free things even if they don't want them. If it was me, I wouldn't be concerned.
2007-01-21 16:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by X me Out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man bad sign, bad sign. Well serious if you dont use condoms since that long ago and all of a sudden he carries tham around then its only safe to assume that he is having sexual relations with another person. Confront him or leave him. Just be careful wit your decision.
2007-01-21 16:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by adictpunk04 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't freak about the pic because guys just like porn but i would ask about the condoms communication is the KEY
2007-01-21 16:36:24 · answer #9 · answered by Waythere 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He could be having an affair!! its about time u two sit down &start talking about whats going on. The truth is the only way u both can move on.
2007-01-21 16:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋