Well, to start off..im 15 ive been raped, i cut, ive attempted suicide , way more than once. My parents hate me ( and i know that sounds like a normal teenage thing) but they really do..hitting, all the time..sooo emotional/physical/mental/and sexual abuse have all been here, and right now, im done, theres no hope for me anymore, and i just dont know..is there anything else i can do right now, instead of killing myself?..or should i just get it over with?
2007-01-21 16:25:13 · 16 answers · asked by hayray 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Stay with me a minute Honey. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Why jump from the frying pan into the fire? Having given you my cliches, listen. Do me the honor of thinking something over I am trying to say to help you Honey. I can't beg you to live. BUT I can tell you your life is far from over. This is not a sermon. The afterlife may very well BE there, it does not depend on what we decide it is. It IS what it IS. Now, you will be old enough to leave and live life on your own terms, the way you want to make it. Keep your mind on how to make a life you would like, on your own. It IS hard to think when you are so very tired. Keep coming here. There are special people here who can help you think. I am going to go pray for you and it doesn't matter if you believe in a positive force or not. I do. And that's all you and I need for me to pray.
Hang On And Live. Right now you just need to survive until you can think. The only thing you can count on in this world is CHANGE!! A million things can happen. Survive. I need to believe you won't quit, Honey. Keep digging through Answers until you find the person(s) who helps you. Your death would diminish my life. And you don't even know me.
2007-01-21 16:52:34 · answer #1 · answered by Dovey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have friends at school? Anyone who cares? You might roll your eyes, but your parents really do love you, and they would be devastated if you did kill yourself. They saved you the last few times, didn't they?
If you can't find hope to yourself, give it to others. Donate to charity. Volunteer. Do something that will make someone else's day a little nicer. You can contribute to this world, even if you are just fifteen.
You've lived a short life, and there's much more out there for you to do. Don't give up until you are way out of the house. It's a lot nicer.
Oh, and wear something orange for a while. It scares the suicidal thoughts right out. It's much too cheery for them.
2007-01-22 18:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by Leafy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things will get better! You're not even an adult yet! There's so much more ahead of you! One of these numbers can help you:
SUICIDE PREVENTION
Suicide & Crisis Hotline 1-800-999-9999 Help for Troubled Teens
National Hope Line Network 1-800-784-2433 Suicide Prevention
SOMEONE TO TALK ABOUT IT TO
Talk Zone 1-800-475-TALK Peer Counselors
Teen Help Line 1-800-400-0900 Help Line For Troubled Teens
Teen Hot Line 1-800-747-8336 Hot Line For Troubled Teens
VOICES In Action, Inc. 1-773-327-1500
Youth Development International 1-800-HIT-HOME (448-4663) Youth Crisis Hotline
National Crisis Line 1-800-334-4357 Crisis Help Line
National Youth Crisis Hotline 1-800-448-4663 Youth Crisis Hotline
FOR SURVIVORS OF INCEST, RAPE AND SEXUAL ABUSE
Sexual Abuse Support Services Year-round (S.A.S.S.Y)
http://www.sassyinc.org/
Boys & Girls Town National Hotline
1-800-448-3000 Troubled Kids & Their Families
...and why not try Jesus? He always listens!
2007-01-23 02:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by The Notorious Doctor Zoom Zoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know?
When I was 15 my parents had already split, divorced and remarried 3 times, my boyfriend, of one year forced me to have sex with him. I had already got pregnant and my parents made me abort and I did drugs.
I had cut myself and tried to kill myself several times.
But you know what? One day I said, enough! I dumped my boyfriend and got psychological help, now I'm 20, I have a healthy relationship, my parents divorced (for good this time) but I was able to be strong and get my brother and sisters through it and now I'm studying Psychology, at the university, so that I can help other people get to tough stuff.
Sometimes we see no light, we feel in a tunnel were there's no way out. But there is, you just must have the will to find it.
This, although you may find far-fetched, my story and my advice.
You are too young to be wasting your life like this, there are much more important stuff you could be doing, like helping people in your same situation, or worse.
If you have a mission, a goal, then getting to it will keep you alive the enough time to realize how beautiful life is...
PS: Get counselling, and if you master the strengh, report your rapist.
2007-01-22 00:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by _Bizi Poz_ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should run away from home the biggest city you can get to.
find the nearest women's shelter. Tell everyone you're 18.
get the first job you can get, which pays under the table (babysititng, cleaning houses, etc).
get a second job.
finish your GED.
save all that money and then
get onto the largest state campus and pick ANY degree, the federal government will pay for you to go to school.
OR......
Stay right where you are and join as many activites as you can, and get a part-time job. Just stay busy.
I mean it, stay busy.
THIS IS NOT ADVICE. DO NOT DO ANYTHING ILLEGAL.
2007-01-22 00:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by melomego 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't kill yourself! I remember I had this assembly for my school a while back about suicide and stuff and it had a hot-line for teens who need help and stuff but I forgot it. Even though I probably don't know what you're feeling, just try to find something you like or something or hang out with friends
2007-01-22 00:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by oh_so_bored93 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should kill yourself. Do you a telephone book? Call a teen hotline. They are free. Ask for help. They will help you. I have worked with lots of children. I have found many children get sick and hurt themselves because of their parents. I have not met a parent yet who is sick because of their child. Get away from your parents. They don't love you. I cannot help you physically because I don't know where you are. Call a shelter for abused women. They will help you.
2007-01-22 00:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by olivia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go find the nearest cop and tell him what's up...contact child protective services. if your case is sound i'd say they'd put you in fostercare.don't even committ suicide.there is help and through the proper authorities you can get help, but it'll never happen if you do something wrong like suicide.and by you getting help maybe the authorities will help those who hurt you?? go find a cop call #911
2007-01-22 00:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by G=ME 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
move out maybe into a foster home you dont need to end your life you need to start a new life with new people there is always hope because there are people that do care for you
2007-01-22 00:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You deserve so much better. Have you tried calling and talking to police? Is there a local shelter you can contact?
2007-01-22 00:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋