cause of the divorced and her bringing of baby does not make me feel comfortable?
2007-01-21 16:08:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it's your house and you don't want her there, don't let her be there. Yet, if it's your baby, you need to love it and care for it when you can...life is short no matter who caused the breakup or for what reason. Remember, it's still your baby.
2007-01-21 16:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by w8n4u_2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your house? You pay the bills there? Even if you and the ex bought the house together, he no longer lives there. If he is your ex and does still live there, boy do you have a screwed up house and you need another place to live! If he is paying child support, that is for the child, not the sleep over of his mum. Tell ex mum in law that she is not welcome in your home. Allow her to see the baby since this is her grandchild, but let her know she will have to find someplace else to stay. You can be cordial yet stern at the same time. Don't be ugly when you tell her because this will surely cause problems with you and the ex. When he asks you about the problem, let him know how you feel. Let him talk to mom. You owe them nothing but time with the child.
2007-01-22 00:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by ohyo5o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex got the house then sorry you have no say in it, but if the house is yours than you can exclude anyone you want, but remember that this person is you babys grandmother, and always will be, do not put her down in front of your child it is not fair to the child to have to make them try to choose between the two of you, and you will cause further hard feelings with your ex.
2007-01-22 00:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by reshadow31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck, I wouldn't let her in my house. I would have her hand the baby over and leave until it was time to come back for the baby and then I'd meet her at the door and hand the baby to her. There's no reason that woman needs to be in your house.
2007-01-22 00:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends if you are living in the house or not. If she is, she can be made to move. But if you aren't living in the house, you more than likely will not be able to be the one who says she stays or leaves. I would try and contact my attorney and ask him/her these questions and he would be able to advise you better than me or anyone else on YA.
2007-01-22 00:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by rosey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. If you live there you can request that she not be there. Why are you living with your divorced spouse anyway?
2007-01-22 00:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by Roll_Tide! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to handle it would be to go tot he door, step outside, and shut the door behind you. Talk to her until you are ready to go back inside.
2007-01-22 00:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anpadh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who owns the house.
The owner of the house has the right to decide who is welcome to visit.
2007-01-22 00:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if it's your house of course. you don't have to have anyone there that you don't want there.
2007-01-22 00:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, kick her out
2007-01-22 00:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by Sxoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋