Did you just give up on them after a while? How long did it take you?
2007-01-21 15:58:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I have been hurt lots of times, and in my heart even if I have said I have given up on them, I know deep down inside, I would never give up on anyone in my life. If they came to me, needed me in some way that I could be of help, I know I would never turn them away...
The heart heals in mysterious ways, at least for me. I could not hold a grudge if my life depended on it... We are all imperfect and I think that is what is stuck in my heart the most... To be forgiving of one another...
And know that we all make mistakes...
If you have been hurt, let it go and give it time... Be good to yourself... But also always be forgiving no matter what.... IF someone is sincere, then forgiveness is to in my heart, "be accepted..."
And no matter what, I have been through, I know anyone in my life, I still in a sense, love, just not in the same way... More like the love that is enduring, and never gives up on anyone or anything... But that does not mean you are in love with them... Hope that makes sense... ♥
Beautiful night to you....
2007-01-21 17:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by CJ♥ 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have before been hurt by a friend who just wouldn't listen to reason. No, I didn't just give up on them after a while. I'm not supposed to.
2007-01-21 16:02:00 · answer #2 · answered by K 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a delicate question to answer. What circumstance? What situation? I hope it was not a permanent thing for you to give up. That is never any good. Believe in your friend beyond hope. There is always a reason people do as they do. If that person hurts you with purpose, there is a reason, hold on, find it out, judge them not harshly, for that is their desire to wound someone else has they have been hurt. All of us who have been hurt know this inside. Remember. Happiness is the spirit of generosity. Yeah, I made that up. But, it sounds great and all knowing. hehehehehe!
2007-01-21 20:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by Whava 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You bet I have- and I allowed it to happen, never again- two faced drama queens are not to be bothered with and from the goodness of my heart and her ignorance, she failed to realize what she did was wrong! I kicked her butt off my 360 today- anyone who knows me, knows that I DO NOT allow head games of any kind. She's gone as far as I am concerned- what a coincidence you should ask this question too at this time. when the heart is hurt too long, you place so much on another to assume respect, and when someone deliberately stabs in back after traumas that one has endured for so long, forget it- they don't want to recognize what other people go through- they play sympathy too long and after awhile it gets to be crap- it smells. If my answer gets reported, that's fine but you know what?- all the other items on answers stay! and for what?!- someone explain that reasoning to me please. I do apologize for being this blunt openly... hope you have a good evening, better than mine at least.
2007-01-21 16:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seemed we both found something to point out in each other. I think in the end we both agreed to disagree and sadly the daily contact faded away as a result. The effort lasted less than a year. Now there seems to be a quiet understanding and mutual respect from a far.
2007-01-21 16:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by Compass Rose 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My best friend always tries to be better than me and she never listen to me when i tried to tell her, it's happened for about 6-7 years. And I did give up for a while, but then I got so fed up w/ her f***ing attitude, sat her down and yelled at her. She felt so bad, she didn't speak for like 30 seconds, got up, hugged me and toold me she was sorry. After that she was always carful by listening to me. I <3 my best friend, she ttly understands. Hope that helps. =) Good Luck.
2007-01-21 16:04:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have, but I love her and just figured there was not reasoning with her and just let it go. Just because she would not listen to what I had to say is no reason to end a friendship.
2007-01-21 16:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by icunurse85 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
Sometimes a month to a year or more. I leave it hanging. I have no need to explain my self to anyone especially when the person already set his or her mind on something that I am not. I'm older now I don't let this emo thing bugged me.
2007-01-21 16:07:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it took me about three months, untill she couldn't take it anymore. It'll take awhile to convince them you only have their best intrests at heart. Just let them know that they aren't alone and if they ever want to talk you'er there for them no matter what.
2007-01-21 16:03:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have been hurt by my friends. It pays to keep in mind that what you call reason and what they call reason may sometimes differ (even though you & I are undoubtedly right lol!)
2007-01-21 16:02:08 · answer #10 · answered by suzanne 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋