2007-01-21 15:51:55 · 20 answers · asked by sunnydays 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because your ex still has a thing for you. I would put a stop to this as soon as you can. It could put a real strain on your marriage. Start declining the presents and mark the letters "return to sender". Enjoy your marriage.
2007-01-21 15:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by teashy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well cookie it seeems like your ex may be in denial. He probably will never accept losing you. Here's one way to handle the situation, without keeping contact with him, send him everything back before you open it. Put it right back into the mail. If you don't, than he'll start believing that there's a chance of you two getting back together, which isn't going to happen. Don't even write him. Just send everything back, he'll get the picture eventually that you are a married woman and you don't want to be bothered with him anymore. Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-21 23:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your ex isn't through with you, and sending the gifts and letters is his/her way of distracting you from your new marriage. A better question for you to be asking is why accept them? If you are happy in your new marriage, don't accept them, because it will hurt your new spouse, and if you aren't over your ex, you shouldn't be married to your new spouse.
I do not say these things to be unkind. I truly don't, but please don't let your ex ruin what you now have. Good luck!
2007-01-21 23:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Crazy thats the answer. Tell them to move on, get over it. You are married and it seems like you two are not on the same page and it will be unfair to just call you two friends. I think they are trying to keep them on your mind. This is not fair to your partner and your partner may take it the wrong way so stop this and tell that person to let go move on and your two cant possible be freinds after you two were an item.
2007-01-22 00:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just feel more obligated to send presents and letters than others. They want to feel their are practicing good ettiquette. I think certain people are raised to feel this is a big importance.
2007-01-21 23:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by sorcergeek 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Either your ex is really happy for you or wants to drive a wedge between you and your spouse. If its bothering you or your spouse, you should put a stop to it.
2007-01-22 01:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no law that says that you cannot remain friends. HOWEVER, they must acknowledge and respect your new spouse. Do not hide it from your spouse, then the harmless friendship becomes deceitful.
2007-01-22 01:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by jesenuf2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you marry for money? Status? Anything but real love?
No, oh, well, then, this person's nuts.
Yes? Well, then, this person is trying to rescue you from yourself!
2007-01-21 23:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELL I THINK MAYBE SHE still HAS FEELINGS FOR YOU AND MISS YOU BUT YOU GOT TO TALK TO HE IN A NICE WAY OK TELL HER THAT SHE CANT BE DOING THAT .TELL HER THAT YOU MOVED ON AND ITS TIME SHE DID TO BUT TRY NOT TO BE TO MEAN ABOUT IT EXPLAIN TO HER THAT YOU ARE MARRIED AND CANT BE WITH HER BUT YOU CAN STILL BE FRIENDS
2007-01-22 00:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by mrs.sl33py 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't matter what the reasons are, return the presents.
2007-01-22 11:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋