First off, my best friend is a girl, we've been friends for along time. I have a bunch friends, but a lot of my guy friends have sort of turned to jerks, or just idiots. My friends who are girls talk to me a lot, and sometimes they tease me... They don't act like I'm a guy and so they'll talk about bra's and boys with funny facial hair at school. What is depressing me is that guys, some of which played football with me this season, a few quit the team because I out did them on the field. And a couple of them just think I am gay because I have friends who are girls. I get bombarded with this everyday and now its bugging me. when I was playing football, I have a scar from when I was little, where I was impaled by a metal fence, It's above my groin on the abdomenleft of my belly button. A few would say 'It's his surgery scars from when he was a woman." my girl friends tells me to ignore them they're jealous, of what? I don't know. I am tired of being called a fag, and being the 'nice guy'
2007-01-21 15:46:32 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Beat the hell out of one of them. This will get you kicked out of school for a few days, but it will also stop the crap! Good luck and I am proud of you young man. You are a good guy.
2007-01-21 15:51:44 · answer #1 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have friends that are girls too, probably as many, and as close, as my guy friends. You don't have to be bad to prove yourself a man. The worst thing you can do right now is to show that it bothers you when they tease you.
If you know you're straight, act it, and don't worry. If some guy in particular is bugging you, it might just be best to have it out with him (physically, I mean) and settle the issue, but only if you can't solve the issue any other way. Above all, stop being intimidated by them, or the teasing will never stop.
2007-01-22 00:02:31 · answer #2 · answered by Free Ranger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
society is just gettin sadder and sadder... why on earth would u tease someone about a scar...terrible!
karma will get em! if not now , in the future. how many stories have you heard of all the popular ppl in skool falling to bits.
with the girls teasing you! Give it back to them... if you cant do that then i guess the only thing is to grin and bare it or ignore them and hope to god that they will mature one day.
Most of my friends are guys so i know how you feel a lil.
2007-01-22 00:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by sweeter87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have all the girls, maybe that's why they are being mean to you. Ignore them, they sound like a bunch of immature "boys" . Don't stoop to their level of games, be yourself and people will love you and support you for it. Just think after high school, you probably won't ever see these guys again until your 20 year reunion.
2007-01-22 00:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by Donna R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are patient and careful, you'll find a girl who will make it worth it.
GIRLS TEASING YOU, MEANS THEY ARE TREATING YOU LIKE A GUY. Beware, some flirting might be happening in that teasing, ...
If guys think your gay, that's their problem.
I'm sorry to say, its been my experience that most guys on football teams are jerks. Most of them also dont amount to much in life.
2007-01-21 23:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by rostov 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i learned real fast there is two types of guys in this world, one is the get laid guy and one is the supporter, a supporter cannot be a laid guy and the laid guy cannot be a supporter
2007-01-21 23:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋