the other day I was at one of my friend's houses and we were looking at pornos on the internet. I have a girlfriend, I'm 16, and i just lost my virginity (it was great, I love it!) Anyways, I always looked only at normal porno before, but we were looking at all this weird stuff and we looked up shemales. I thought it would totally gross me out but I was kind of turned on by them having sex and stuff. I went home later that day and I was masturbating to porn on my computer (I always do that) and then I went on some shemale site again- It made me feel bad and weird but it was exciting. I looked a couple more times since and I still like normal porno too and I really, really love my girlfriend- she's hot and I think she's bi too! But this is really confusing to me and kind of makes me feel bad. Is it normal for teen guys to be confused about stuff like this and do you think I'm bi now? I'm kind of scared. Oh yeah, i only like girls in my school and stuff, never guys.
2007-01-21 14:51:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Yes, you're perfectly normal. Porn is designed to get you aroused. That's why it exists. And most people have a little bit of bisexuality in them, apparently, whether they do anything about it or not. Our culture discourages them from ever admitting it, though. Nothing to be scared of. You are what you are, and teen years are when you discover what you are. If your buddies weren't also being turned on by gay porn, they wouldn't have been watching it, would they? Why don't you ask them how it makes them feel? Maybe they're as worried as you and knowing you feel the same will make them feel better.
The obvious advice is to lay off of the porn! This is why parents get so upset over their kids seeing porn, because it brings out feelings and sensations that they aren't old enough to know how to deal with yet.
2007-01-22 03:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Common. Some do, some don't. Many grew up doing that with a buddy, so they're comfortable in front of each other. So is jacking each other off, although usually not in a group. I don't know why people draw the line at actually helping each other. What do they think will happen besides it feeling better? Do whatever pleases you. People would would be amazed what goes on behind closed doors.
2016-05-24 11:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal.
Don't worry so much about labels such as "straight" and "bi". You are what you are, and it won't change no matter how much you stress over it. Looking at shemale porn doesn't make you bi. If you are more than incidentally (not just once when you saw a guy in the shower at the gym or something) attracted sexually to other males and are also attracted to females, THAT makes you bi. And if you are bi, that's fine. Don't let any ignorant jackass tell you that it is wrong. Just think of it as the best of both worlds. Just be you.
2007-01-21 15:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal for teens to explore their sexuality. Maybe it's not the fact that they're she-males, but the fact that it made you feel bad and weird and excited that turned you on, because it's "out of the norm". Doesn't necessarily mean you're bi.
2007-01-21 14:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by JessC 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your 16. Thinking about drywall would make you horny. Don't worry about the weird stuff-thats just curiousity. Its like looking at a train wreck-you can't help but look.
2007-01-21 17:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by HiTekRednek 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well u said u self u thought it was gross but your inscdents told u no and u coulnt help after seeing it at 16 masturbate its normal and u can easy fall in love 2 u love ya gf u not bi and this questions in kind of the same boat helped me 2 thanks guys
2007-01-22 01:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by ash r 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you're bi just because of that. I do feel like it's normal to feel excitement over any sexual stimuli at your age. Relax and don't be so hard on yourself.
2007-01-21 14:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
its quite normal, but remember, losing virginity and all dat stuff is not the actual life. ok, dats good but only till some extent..a safe extent.
study hard, be a true lover to your gf and alwayz be a good judge..dats the real life!!
2007-01-21 18:07:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, t is completely normal. You are just exploring your sexuality and your hormones are at there peak. Most likely you are not homosexual, just a normal teen.
2007-01-21 15:27:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes i think its normal well im a girl but guys at ur age look at those stuff so just fell normal while watching or doing it.
2007-01-21 14:59:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋