Married Men ONLY please:))?

Question

How often do you think about cheating on your wife (if you think about it at all) and have any of you actually cheated and did you like it???

Answer 1

done it-

Answer 2

I hardly ever think about cheating. You see, I love my wife and cheating could cause me to lose her and the happiness we share. Without her in my life, I would be mush. I would survive, but I would miss her an awful lot. After 27 years of marriage, she kind of grows on you.

Now, that doesn't mean I don't observe and look around. I admire women and I am amazed daily with their grace and their beauty. I think I will look until I die, but I don't touch.

And yes, in my years of marriage I've had the opportunity to cheat. There were times when saying no was very difficult. But, if the truth be told, (and don't blush).... I think if I ever cheated and I knew how wrong it was and I knew if my wife found out that she'd leave me and my family would hate me.... I think if I knew all this..... I'd have trouble getting an erection! Too much pressure, you know???

Answer 3

Personally, I am always confronted with the thought. I don't think about it in the sense of actually planning it, but there are options that are available. So, by thinking about it, I am trying to avoid it. Either by not talking to certain females, being careful what I say, and overall avoiding being in compromising situations. I'm not a robot. Being faithful is not and should not be automatic to any man. Because if you are totally in tune with your wife needs and you are giving your wife what she needs emotionally and physically, you will give off a certain vibe. And other women will pick up on it.

If I get caught slipping...I will fall. But, for me, it is not automatic. I love my wife and my goal is to be faithful, but yes, I have cheated. As far as being fun? No more fun than masturbating watching pornograpy. Besides, I felt really dirty afterwards.

I hope I was able to provide insight.

Answer 4

Married men, unless they have lost their senses, look at other women and many times have lust in their minds. But acting on it is another thing. Multiple problems. Personal integrity, potential embarrassment, being caught, angry spouse, potential blackmail, etc. Many practical reasons not to, not any good reasons to cheat. If you just want to get laid, do it at home. Strange partners, aside from the danger of stds, are still strange and not as comfortable as mom at home. So I'd rather stick with what I know, and feel god about it than experiment and feel bad about it. No cheating for me.

Answer 5

Never actually thought about cheating or for that matter been put into the situation where a woman was throwing herself at me. I think it would be a different story if I was on the spot. Then maybe it would problem.

Got divorce (twice) anyway.

Answer 6

At my age, it isn't worth thinking of cheating on my wife. No women would want yesterday's leftovers.
The fun went after the children were born. She turned it all off after that.

Answer 7

Hey Jimmy C are you stupid? She asked for married guys.

I don't think about cheating.

Answer 8

I am often attracted by good looking women but I choose to be true to my wife because it is a value I believe in. If I don't respect my own values I loose my personal integrity and her confidence in me as well. If my wife can't count on me , Who can ??? If I am not true to myself I am lost !

Answer 9

Why do you think they cheated, they probably weren't happy at home, of cause they will like it!

Answer 10

I don't view that as an option, so it is never seriously considered.

Answer 11

Gluckstadt Randy is my husband, He answered your question, and i gave him a thumbs up before I realized it was him! How sweet . . . . . . . think he'll be getting a prize tonight!

Thanks honey, I LOVE YOU!