the other day I was at one of my friend's houses and we were looking at pornos on the internet. I have a girlfriend, I'm 16, and i just lost my virginity (it was great, I love it!) Anyways, I always looked only at normal porno before, but we were looking at all this weird stuff and we looked up shemales. I thought it would totally gross me out but I was kind of turned on by them having sex and stuff. I went home later that day and I was masturbating to porn on my computer (I always do that) and then I went on some shemale site again- It made me feel bad and weird but it was exciting. I looked a couple more times since and I still like normal porno too and I really, really love my girlfriend- she's hot and I think she's bi too! But this is really confusing to me and kind of makes me feel bad. Is it normal for teen guys to be confused about stuff like this and do you think I'm bi now? I'm kind of scared. Oh yeah, i only like girls in my school and stuff, never guys.
2007-01-21 14:49:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I think you are confusing real and fantasy.
You can be straight and still enjoy looking at unusual but it doesn't mean that you would ever really want to participate.
Every one has a sense of curiosity for the unknown. Doesn't mean you have to act upon it.
Look and don't let yourself get too wrapped up in it.
2007-01-21 14:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's completely normal to be a little confused at your age. One thing that is important for you to realise is that there is a big difference between things you like to watch and fantasize about and what things you actually like to do. If you don't like guys in real life and your attracted to girls i'd say your probably straight. I have a lot of fantasies that i would never want to actually happen. Sexual orientation is a label you give yourself so dont ever feel like "oh i have to be bi now".
2007-01-21 22:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, Gay/Bi/Straight are only labels. I know lesbians who sleep with men and straight guys who like guys, and bisexuals who've only ever had sex with women. It's all about self-identification.
Secondly, getting turned on by "shemale" porn doesn't mean anything except that you get turned on by it. Sometimes people get turned on by stuff that's taboo just because it's taboo. Sometimes people like stuff that they never expected to like. If you think of yourself as straight, call yourself straight. If one day you do find yourself turned on by guys, think more about it then. But you can't classify who and what a person is by one sexual interest of theirs. After all, most of us have several sexual interests, at least a few of which aren't "normal".
2007-01-21 22:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by pippini 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds very normal. Don't worry about being turned on by she males but do get help if your interest in looking up pornographic sights becomes a problem in your life or if you feel like you are addicted. It is healthy to explore different sides of you sexuality & this is probably all that is happening with you now. Enjoy your time alone.
2007-01-21 22:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Lots of guys are curious about stuff like this. Quite a few even have a go with a guy just to see what it's like. Don't worry, you are very normal.
2007-01-22 11:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Na, I don't think that makes you gay, but stop going to that site before you get too interested and start liking shemales and crossdressers and all those other weird people. Lesbians are ok though =D
2007-01-22 00:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Things that are different tend to excite us. I'm Caucasian & attracted to dark skinned women.
I think the appeal may be the fact that it's different & unknown to you.
I would steer clear of it & go have sex with my girlfriend again!
2007-01-21 22:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
what you like to masturbate to and what you would actually touch in real life are two completely different things. some people get turned on by things that they wouldn't ever do. sometimes i like to watch two women go at it, but i would never touch a woman in real life.
2007-01-21 22:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is definitely not normal. You're a young teenage boy who is attracted to men who dress like woman and who possibly have woman body parts. They are really men!!! You shouldn't convince yourself of anything other than that. These are men that you are attracted too! Definitely odd and you possibly may be bi sexual.
I think you're way too young to be having sex with your girlfriend. You are only 16 years old. Where are your parents? I don't say that to be mean, I say that because I care! There are too many teenagers out there having sex and making babies when they are just babies themself. If you're watching porn and you're girlfriend is not aware of this, you need to tell her because you're being dishonest. If you're truly attracted to your girlfriend and you love her, than why would you truly need porn?! Think about it!
Good luck!
2007-01-21 22:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by journeythroughlife85 2 · 0⤊ 6⤋
i dont think that make you gay
2007-01-21 23:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋