2007-01-21 14:26:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because you're human and a little part of you wonders why it couldn't have worked for you guys
2007-01-21 14:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by evian 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like maybe you have moved on physically but the emotional ties are still very strong--you have regrets of this being an EX situation--so how can you be happy when you really are not ?? You need to face the fact and then maybe go from there--Its no different than making any other decision in life that was regretted--
2007-01-21 22:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are very hurt and still feeling pain because of it... This is normal... You may need counseling to help you get past this and to really move on. It is hard to be happy for someone else when you are not happy.
2007-01-21 22:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like somebody needs to let go,it maybe that you think you could made now that you see the other happy. I think you feel that he or she didn't treat me like that, MOVE ON, MOVE ON for whatever the reason IT DIDN'T WORK! You had your time god has planned something better for the both of you.
2007-01-21 23:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by deezbrats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it wasnt you who made them happy! Nothing against anyone that is just how it is especially if he was an ex that really meant something with alot of potential.
2007-01-21 22:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by shay80800 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a new relationship he has, then ofcourse he's going to be happy right now. Wait a couple of years and see if they are still together.
2007-01-21 22:47:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not. If you can't be happy for them and treat them like you'd like any other casual acquaintence, then you're holding onto something.
Let it go. I never understood why some folks get stuck on negative stuff. Just let it go.
2007-01-21 22:33:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somtimes if it's an especially painful breakup, people put on their "game face", but are still hurting. And there is no time limit to your pain (don't live there forever) and if you haven't allowed yourself to grieve properly, it may take some time.
2007-01-21 22:46:08 · answer #8 · answered by J m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are thinking why couldn't it work between you two. Its normal to feel that way
2007-01-22 03:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by black7_revolution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you share a bond with him. I think its normal.
2007-01-21 22:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by notalucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋