What attracted her to you? Have you always been attracted to plus size women? What was you weight limited - if you have one? Were you teased by friends and family members?
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2007-01-21 14:19:54 · 7 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i am not a man but i am a married plus size woman. My husband chased me for years before i gave him the time of day and that was during college. he found me after college b/c i was just that damn sexy. Plus he didnt even get none during those years other people was getting it and he still wanted it. why would he get teased or anyone for that matter. that is crazy. he could have gotten a skinny chic and got teased jsut cause she may have been ugly or teeth jacked up or not good character helll anything. so that really has no relevance. Guaranteed you can put me and any skinny broad in the same room and i can snatch the same dude. no prob at all! My friends are size 4-14. Plenty of times i have walked away with numbers and jsut didnt use em. to this day me and my husband laugh about the guys out here that see my ring and dont care. Just to show how bad i am, i was getting my hair braided and my hair was all over my head and this 6 ft.,caramel colored dude was tryin to holla while i was in the chair talkin bout "ya braids comin along real good" and i was like uh huh so is my marriage and the funny thing is that he said his marriage too. aint that crazy. anyway big is in! i dont know where you been tucked away but stay blessed!
2007-01-21 15:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by shay80800 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This will seem really weird, heads up.
I had the philosphy that I would instantly know the person I would marry, like getting hit by a beer truck when you are looking up at a building. That being said, I did the online dating thing for a while and always liked to talk on the phone with a person before I met them, just to get a feel for the personality. And yes, I called my mother at 2:30 in the morning once after a 3 hour phone conversation with a girl I met via eharmony. I told her that I found my wife...after 3 more phone conversations, I knew I would marry her, even if she looked like the beer truck that hit me.
As crazy as it sounds, it happened. It took years and alot of looking, talking and some dating, but lightning struck for me, and it was all about a basic compatiblity that went way beyond physical traits. My wife is a plus size, for the record, but I think she is the most incredible woman I have ever met.
2007-01-21 17:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by n5dav 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why is it just there size that matters. Im a believer in fall in love with the person not there looks
2007-01-21 14:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by xxgq 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I dated a chick in HS who's now somewhat great, in line with danger a hundred and seventy+ lbs, and as quickly as I dated her she became purely in line with danger a hundred and twenty-a hundred thirty. it truly is my max weight. yet even so, i'm purely like 155lbs, so i admire them smaller than me!
2016-12-14 09:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't think of that aspect of it; it was her vivacious personality that attracted me to her, and we liked a lot of the same music.
2007-01-21 14:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dated one, didn't get married, she had a great personality, i mean we would stay up late just talking till we fell asleep and stuff, the sex was good too, but that is what atracted me to her the most, it was her personality
2007-01-21 14:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by zether 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was the last one on the scrapheap and she took what was left...
She got her kids, now she leaves me alone to watch them.
2007-01-21 14:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋