i was at battle of the bands and i was hanging out with this girl who is 4 years older than me, i know her rather well and all.. so, we were talking for a few minutes and the next thing i know after we stop, she has her head on my shoulder just looking at me, i leaned my head on her too. we stayed like that for a few minutes and at the end of the song she just looked up at me (im about 5'10" and she's like 5'5") and smiled. i didnt think much of it then, but a little later she started randomly hugging me and stuff, and she hugs me in school when she sees me and she even kissed my cheek once. so im really not sure if any of these are relevant or anything, but my real question is do you think she likes me? i think she's straight and im bi, but no one knows, like i havent told anyone, i have not told her or anyone. thanks!!
2007-01-21 14:16:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
sounds like she likes u....
2007-01-21 14:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by Just Wondering 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean anything. It simply means she was taken by the moment and shared it with you.
Why do people think everything is sexual? What ever happened to just being comrades? I've hugged my straight buds, bathed with them, even kissed a few and they I, but just because someone is acting adult doesn't automatically mean they turn into animals.
Listen, if you want to know what it means you need to ask her, not anyone here. We don't have ESP pills to figure out your personal conundrums. We support whatever it is you decide, but my goodness girl, if you're going to act like an adult the behave like one.
This message is in no way directed at you personally rather to those who continually ask questions better left to professional guidance counselors for school children.
2007-01-21 22:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you failed to tell us, is IF she knows you are Bi. Clearly, she likes you, but whether it is in a sexual way or not is the question. I would suspect that IF she knows you like girls, then it probably is in a sexual way.
Straight women are very likely to hug and kiss other women especially in greetings and good-byes. This usually is more likely with someone they haven't seen for a long time or likely won't see again for some time. Guys, of course, shake hands or slap each other on the shoulder kind of thing.
2007-01-21 22:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by plezurgui 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like she likes you. Maybe you should descreetly ask her about homosexuallity and how she feels about it. And if she is ok with it and gives other information about herself and things of this nature then just wing it and ask her out. Especially if she keeps hugging you and stuff.
2007-01-21 22:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by brandnew_yourfavoriteweapon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she deffinately likes you. No question about that. You could tell her you are bi but it won't really matter if you are bi if you like her anyway. I'm sure you won't two time her if you like her.
2007-01-21 22:21:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are like that...I have come across. I reckon it's best to distance yourself from her, if she gives you exclusive behaviour and attention. I've been in your position...only I'm straight.
2007-01-21 22:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you two made a connection at that concert. Only she can tell you what her feelings are though.
2007-01-21 23:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, talk about clueless. If everything you say is true, then she definitely likes you. What more signs do you need?
2007-01-21 22:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think she's straight , but she's maybe bi- curious.
2007-01-21 22:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants you
2007-01-21 22:23:20 · answer #10 · answered by gunnerbstrong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋