why some couple who never argues but later suddenly break up?

Question

i have a friend who never argues with her boyfriend, everything seem so perfect, the couple seem to be very polite, but then one day they suddenly break up, how could this be?

Answer 1

Sometimes it can mean one person is not emotionally invested in the realtionship enough to care to argue....

Answer 2

Not arguing doesn't mean there's nothing wrong in the relationship, or that it's perfect. Your friend and her bf might have been communication problem and keeping their hurt inside and not discuss about it. So when it came to a breaking point, they both get hurt and ended the relationship. Either that, they've been together for too long and they didn't do anything to spice up their romance. It became dull and boring after a while probably, and they just lose the spark, i guess.

Answer 3

A couple of things: maybe they don't admit/show anyone that they argue. Or sometimes if you don't care enough, you don't put forth effort to disagree. Fighting isn't always a negative thing- it can be productive if you come to an understanding. Also, some couples who never argue aren't comfortable with disagreement, so the first sign of an argument, they just split. You will probably never know.

Answer 4

Only they know the truth. You are not there every time they are together. They don't always share with you their most inner relationship with any outsider know matter how close you think you are.

Same situation with any family. On the out side they seem nice and content, but inside the house their a lot abuse occurring. One day or night a host of police and ambulance are at the family home. The police interview the neighbors, and every one of them don't understand what happen.

"Well officer they seem such a nice couple and kids plays in the front yard. You said he kill his whole family....."

Take yourself for example, how offer you appear to people to be self content, but inside of you thoughts are tearing you down for some reason.

Only your friends have the answers.

Answer 5

That is the story of my life, My ex husband and I never argued about anything. That's because we lacked passion in our relationship. People only argue about things that are important to them so if what the other person does or thinks is not important to you there is no reason to argue. The one thing a relationship can not tolerate is indifference.

Answer 6

They don't communicate! That's the worst kind. You can't be happy if you don't ever get to "discuss" things. It's not normal not to argue. My husband used to say it wasn't right when we'd argue. He was raised with a controlling father where his mother doesn't dare rock the boat. I told him every married couple argues and it's very healthy. I've just learned to not yell while we are arguing - he could never get used to that. I've learned not to yell and he's learned it's good to argue, especially if you both are listening. He jokes now about it, as he's noticed lots of other couple argue alot.

Answer 7

Because there was no connections and couples need to learn to disagree otherwise what's the point of having a real relationship?

Answer 8

You never know what goes on behind closed doors. They may argue, but never resolve anything, or maybe never argue and still never resolve anything.

My ex and I had the perfect relationship in public. People were shocked when we broke up. If they'd only known the emotional, physical and other abuse I endured in our home...

Answer 9

Two answers. 1) You know NOTHING of thier home life, no matter how detailled your friend tells you, and 2) Sometimes people just know that their not right for each other, and split up in a reasonable a fit way.

Answer 10

Because, they do argue just not where people can hear. Every couple has disagreements. I've seen couples who say "we never argue", they get married because, they think they are perfect for each other and then the reality hits.

Answer 11

Because something comes up that they cannot work through so they break it off.... This is usually why. No one is perfect so there is not such thing as a perfect couple.