Ok i dont agree with the statement "once a cheater,always a cheater..my best friend has been married 15 yrs and about 9 yrs ago she cheated on her husband 1 time it never happened before that and it never happened since
2007-01-21 14:09:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i dont either i believe cheat once theres is always a POSSIBILITY that you will do it again but people change
2007-01-21 14:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by DeathBe4Dishonor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the individual.
I have heard that statement before, and classify it as a stereotype.
Some people who cheat do so because they have not mentally matured, or because they feel their partner does not care. And they want to get a reaction out of them.
There are others who after they have cheated suddenly realise what it was that they were risking, and stop their cheating ways.
It is easy to point the finger and say "why did they have to cheat in order to realise it" But in truth and not just for cheaters I am sure there is something we have all done and then realised afterward how big the consequences of out actions were.
For me I used to wonder what it was like to wear glasses, or to get to use crutches.
Then one year after wondering why I had trouble reading what the teacher wrote on the board I found out I was short sighted, then later that same year I was running around on a sunny day, slipped in a puddle of mud, and realised how hard it was to get around on crutches.
In short we don't realise what we had/have until we don't have it anymore, then we want to try and get it back and hope for a second chance.
2007-01-21 14:23:18 · answer #2 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never make any statement that is going to apply 100 percent of the time....... Generally though....once a cheater always a cheater
2007-01-21 14:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you may't Stand the Cheat, Get Outta the fireplace that's extra effective Having loved and Cheated, Than not in any respect Having loved in any respect dishonest: merely yet another Weasel note for common Sexual Urges you do not recognize Cheat
2016-12-02 21:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah a cheater will alway's cheat like my husband
2007-01-25 09:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cheated didn't she, then that means she will always be a cheater, she can't take that back. That's what it means
2007-01-21 14:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Amber,
I always see that saying posted on here, I don't agree with it either. It isn't true for everyone!
2007-01-21 14:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The statement means if you do it once ...you might do it again
2007-01-21 14:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by val l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to understand why you cheated in the first place. if you don't know why then you will probably do it again.
2007-01-21 15:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by bpositive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you on this one 100% People can and do change if they want and choose to.... You are so right. thanks for this one:)
2007-01-21 14:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋