do some people gravitate towards certain types of people?

Question

know it's a good thing, but why do people gravitate towards some people, what I mean, is people will find themselves comfortable around me, and talk to me, strike up a conversation,I mean I love it but I notice that everyone don't encounter that as often.Some people complain how it is hard to meet people and so on..Anyone have an explanation why some people gravitate some people rather than others?

Answer 1

You may remind them of someone. You are probably just very approachable, personable and easy to talk to, not everyone is. I also think it has something to do with how one carries one's self, like if you walk with confidence, smile a lot, look relaxed and open, people may feel more comfortable to approach you. As with intimate relationship I hear that we tend to search out people who remind us of our parents, if you are a girl you gravitate towards someone who reminds you of your dad, without realizing it. It sounds disturbing but I think we just do it because that are the characteristics we are comfortable with and understand. They may not be the healthiest to be around but since when did the human race do something simply because it was healthy for them ya know? :)