shes my 9 year old sons tutor and babysitter, he even has a crush on her and I find her irresistable, beautiful, funny, PERFECT
i really just want my feelings for her to stop before it ruins my marriage and my life. What do i do ?
2007-01-21 14:03:51 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get some counselling before you end up in trouble.I don't necessarially mean legal trouble because if it were my 15 year old daughter and someone 30 years old made a move on her I would be on trial and he would be on a slab.
2007-01-21 14:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by mercury9501 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by looking at your other questions, I believe you're lying. however, how do I know? exactly. I don't. so, I'm going to answer this anyways. you have a wife, a son, and your life is all planned out for you. don't screw it up by hitting on a 15 year old. c'mon, she's a child! leave her be, or she may tell her parents. you don't want to get in trouble with the law, do ya? let it go. if you don't, how are you going to explain that to your family. are you just gonna say, "honey, I like a 15 year old, and I think we need to divorce", or, "son, I like your tutor, so your mother and I are divorcing. hope ya don't mind." DON'T ruin your life. she's probaby an immature teen anyways. I'm 11 and my sister is 13. people around her age act different than what you're seeing in this 15 year old. if you were to be around her for a while, you'd see the mistake. just because she's beautiful doesn't mean anything about her personality. let it go.
2007-01-21 14:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is sick. I hope you know that. She's underage and anything you do permitted or not is wrong! You're probably dissatisfied in your marriage and she might make you feel better but falling for her is not the answer. Not only will you ruin your life with your wife and family, you'll ruin hers. You need to find the underlining cause. If it's because she pays you attention and listens to what you say you and your wife need to learn how to communicate better. It's hard to say because I don't know the situation with you and your wife. If it's sexual desire than you have something really wrong with you. Sorry but I have to say that. You and your wife need to learn to communicate more about your sex life. Once again it's hard to comment not knowing the circumstances. If all else fails go see a hooker that's of legal age. It's not the ideal resolution but it's better than ruining a little girls life.
2007-01-21 14:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by barflairer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end watching American splendor and Lolita for starters. maximum 15 12 months olds think of 30 12 months old adult males are gross and old. If understanding she shows you to be an old fart would not kill your buzz, think of approximately what detention center existence would be for you in case you even start to make a circulate in this woman. you would be actually everyone's beyotch. Pedophiles are the backside of the low in Cellblock D, you would be greater powerful off entering into as a murderer than a infant raper.... and that they gained't care if all you probably did grow to be play somewhat grab a** with a fifteen 12 months old, you would be a infant raper to each con interior the joint. Your 9 12 months old son having a weigh down on her is cute. You having a weigh down on her is merely gross. positioned an end to it now although you're able to desire to, till now you injury your existence and the lives of those around you, whether it skill letting her go and hiring a guy instruct.
2016-11-26 01:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by sickels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new babysitter and tutor, if the son likes her, i figure he isnt concentrating anyways. Plus its against the law. don't let a little crush ruin your marriage and screw up your sons life.
2007-01-21 14:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta be a MAN and leave the JAILBAIT alone!!! C'mon dude we dont want to see you on the 10 o'clock news.
sounds like you have an obsession, i would say find a new tutor/babysitter and get her outta here!
2007-01-21 14:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by STEVE0 THE CLOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoah, I think you may be realizing that you have a sickness that you should seek immediate mental help for, before you ruin your marriage....and the life of some young girl. Also, your son who would be dragged through the ringer as his dad was named a "Pervert"!!
2007-01-21 14:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that you feel neglected by your wife (no sex?) And you are getting impatient. If you feel that way about a 15 year old girl that your son has a crush on, it is only for sexual reasons. Dont fret it, just control your impulses. Hope this helps!
2007-01-21 14:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, thats pretty deep. All I can say is be wise about this. Weigh out the pros and cons. If u talk to her, wat is the good and the bad that will result from it. Truthfully, I think u have too much at risk to blow it on a girl that might jus call da copz on u and ruin ur life. Whenever she comes over, stay FARR FARR AWAYY!!! Try to think that shes invisible and doesnt exist.(Dis strategy works 4 me wit ma parents, lolzZz)
2007-01-21 14:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to avoid her, find another tutor for your son. Erase her from your life and everything will be back to normal. Your probably just going through an early mid life crisis.
2007-01-21 14:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋