I just wanted the opinion of you people. I'm 19 & he's 24 about to be 25, there wouldn't be any problems if we were to get married now right? I mean because I'm not over 21? Jus curious
2007-01-21 13:59:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i got married at 19, and he was 23...that was 16 years ago last thursday!!! we waited a long time to have children though.
you can make it work if you want it bad enough. never-NEVER say the word DIVORCE...you can never take it back! and love each other no matter what! there is alot of hard hard work involved! some days you wake up, and wonder what the heck was i thinking....then there are others that remind you just exactly what it was!!! enjoy every day-good bad or indifferent!
2007-01-21 14:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy Belle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No there would'nt be any kind of legal problems because you are over 18. However, I was married at 17 to a man 11 years older than me so i know where you are coming from. We have a wonderful marriage and three kids now. I'm 25 now and can tell you from experience that it will make somethings in your life harder. Do you want to go to college? If so you might want to wait. I've been in school off and on sence 2000 . It diffently made college more difficult of course kids did'nt help. Just follow your heart and the rest will follow. It sounds like your not sure right now...you might want to take more time to think about it. Good luck!!!
2007-01-21 14:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by just me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am 20 and I wouldnt ahve wanted to get married last year. Make sure that you arent making any childish decisions since you are still oung. I know plenty of people who got married at that age and did not have any major problems. So if this is the right guy then go ahead.
2007-01-21 14:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by secret love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem, I got married young as well ( my husband was thirty then).
I just want to warn you to listen to the warnings and words of loved ones before rushing to the alter. I didn't. I am 24 now and often wonder if things might have been better if I had?
2007-01-21 14:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure ur emotions are not ruling ur mind, and that woudl be alright.... but a guy at 25..... if he is mature enough to understand u, then igo for it. if he is the type who isnt matured to hold huge responsibilities yet, then i woudl say.. hold it off to another 2 years or until he is grown.
bec even when u r young, but ur man is matured and will understand u, then it will go far.. but if both of u are immature about life and the respnsibilities of being married, then its bound to be a big problem...
2007-01-21 14:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same situation with the ages and everything and i think everything is fine. at first i was worried because i know that i will want to go to clubs and parties and hes not that type so i thought i would have problems but i love him more than clubs or drinking so ill sacrifice all that to marry him
2007-01-21 14:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most states as long as your over 18 it's fine but don't go into this lightheartedly. go to school get an education try living on your own for awhile. but if your positive he's it then don't let others talk you out of it. i married at 19 and we been happily married for almost 4yrs. despite naysayers.
2007-01-21 14:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by D.W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES there will be problems.. i do not think this is a mature decision on you part.. i know he is older.. but you are sooo young!if he really loves you he will wait and then u can experience the same things he got to.. don't let him take those years from you.. u only live once do not just settle.. good luck!
2007-01-21 14:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by Emmie S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, but why are you in a hurry to get married. how long have you been together. i'd hold off a year. divorce rate is so high right now, make sure he's the one
2007-01-21 14:02:39 · answer #9 · answered by amana5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is ok,but do you want to give up your freedom at age 19 ?
2007-01-21 14:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋